I strongly suggest you change the word from "hit" to "spank", th

a big difference here, check the dictionary,please.

Thanks for your suggestion, i do have a job i like and i do NOT see any reason my job has anything to do with the topic we are discussing about.

Also thanks for your good comment on my daughter, she is my sweet heart and if your compliment is true, then i do believe that a child's behavior(good or bad) more or less reflects her parent 's education some how in some way.

Talking about expertise, one thing is for sue that experts DO change their views from one to another even opposite periodically. Remember that back to 70's, experts believe that infants should sleep facing down, now, how many are we here still following this expert's rule?

But please don't get me wrong that i thing experts are useless, in fact, i learned a lot of good stuffs from them and they worked pretty well on my daughter. However, no matter how good a expert's advice is, it must first fit my daughter's situation then it can be said "Good", otherwise, it is just a piece of junk to me, period.

If both of us only focus on our own side instead of openning our eyes to diversities, we are not going to learn anything from eath other and that is not the reason we chose to come to this forum.

So, let's just keep our own views regarding this issue and agree with our "disagree". Maybe, in years, if we still have chance to talk to each other here, we can exchange our information about how our kids are doing, that should be fun.

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• Don't be so sensitve, I wasn't implying you don't have a job. -21312- ♀ (350 bytes) () 05/12/2006 postreply 12:52:09

• I am not interested in convincing anyone as how -Jade2003- ♀ (417 bytes) () 05/12/2006 postreply 13:07:39