说一些不同话题：关于“选美”。请有意让女儿参加“选美”的朋友讨论

 家有一女，she is quite beautiful. People from different ethical background 赞美 her beauty . In an occasional chance, she was asked for a screen audition( 试镜），she got accepted. the photographer said she is photogenic(上镜）。But we live in the middle of nowhere in America, not at 洛山几or New york, it is not realistic for us to let her try this kinds of activities.

Since she was 8 years old, every year, she has been inviting for our city and our state pre-teen beauty pageant(小少女选美) . But my hu*****and is a sports man, party time triathlete, my daughter has to devote herself into sports. Now she is 12, and she is the top swimmer in our state and top three runners in the across country team at her school . we never be able to send her to try any of the 选美活动.

I never think beauty pageant is any easy than sports, it may be even harder. My daughter promised me she is going to try it when she is 16, she said that she want to do something different as an Asian girl.(I support her idea too). I keep her in once a week Ballet, summer drama camp, I am also going to let her take some vocal lessons.(半小时，两星期一次 ) It seems everything are in the right track, but I do not know if she never try the beauty pageants for all those years, she can able to do it when she reachs 16.

I am pazzled sometimes. 肯请大家讨论。

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• 美国的选美比赛还是很锻炼人的 -今天是个好天气- ♀ (37 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:01:58

• 支持多才多艺的美少女去选美 -诃诃- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:04:11

• 这么强的女儿，她想干什么你都支持吧。选美选上了好处也多多啊。 -篱笆08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:04:38

• 听说有学校sponsor的那种比较靠谱。 -篱笆08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:14:22

• 如果有心打入娱乐圈就上，不然就在周围过把小瘾就得了。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:14:09

• 没PP，没真相，大家也不好讨论。 -music818- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:24:27

• if i were you, i won't. if i were her, i won't. :)~~~~~~~~~~~~~ -20146- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:32:49

• 站这儿~~~~~~ -清新茉莉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:38:23

• 看不明白。。。 -baydad- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:56:01

• 回复：if i were you, i won't. if i were her, i won't.？ 请讲~~~~~~~~~~ -zephyr2012- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 18:14:43

• ？ 请讲~~~~~~~~~~ -zephyr2012- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 18:15:18

• ？ 请讲 -baydad- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 20:26:44

• 为什么要等到16岁才选美。我周围有孩子参加pre-teen -bEsc- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 13:38:43

• 这可是个花钱的爱好，而且经常有意想不到的问题。还是好好做运动吧。当然想进娱乐圈另论。 -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 14:39:41

• 孩子有这么好的条件和这么强烈的愿望,应该支持. -一位妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 15:58:43

• 如果孩子有这方面天赋，自己也喜欢，就去选好了。家长给予正确的引导。 -知名度比较高- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 16:01:23

• 为中国人形象鼓励去选美，但我若有女绝不会让她去。 -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 16:38:39

• 回复：为中国人形象鼓励去选美，但我若有女绝不会让她去。why? -zephyr2012- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 18:07:34

• 我不在公共场合说政治不正确的话。：） -CirrusCloud- ♀ (81 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 19:21:55

• 有位朋友的女儿参加过，是非常好的，绝大多数人都没有过的经验。 -啊咕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 18:36:57

• 为什么不试一试呢？ -Eveline- ♀ (124 bytes) () 11/26/2012 postreply 20:56:06

• 回复：为什么不试一试呢？thanks a lot.I think the same way -zephyr2012- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2012 postreply 08:20:24

• 认识一个每年都带女儿选美的老美。从5岁起每年都选. -milk007- ♀ (247 bytes) () 11/27/2012 postreply 08:34:12

• 只要不影响学习，我会支持。 -旖旎风光- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2012 postreply 08:57:51