let's talk about 未来职业和学校的关系

first of all, you should let your kid pick 未来职业 they like.  Not what you think is best for them. 

Second.  MOST of ABC I know of, will NOT attend a graduate school like we all did. 

Both my kids had the idea of getting a Ph.D like their daddy did.  Once they are in teh college, both of them changed their minds.

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• it's true: most ABCs do not go to graduate school -laoyangdelp- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/31/2011 postreply 10:27:59

• 他们工作几年后又会change mind的，发现还是上学好玩。：） -enjoyer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/31/2011 postreply 10:36:53

• 我说的是职业学校，现在的就业市场，本科出来失业的不少吧，选什么职业当然要家长参与 -mooseamoose- ♂ (99 bytes) () 07/31/2011 postreply 11:07:50

• 中国家长是不可能鼓励小孩勇敢追求的 - I don't look at that way -Big_Benz- ♂ (73 bytes) () 07/31/2011 postreply 11:24:30

• 小孩的生活是他们的，家长不要参与，所以我说你是真的主流白人思维方式了 -mooseamoose- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/31/2011 postreply 11:31:12

• 家长Must 要参与 -Big_Benz- ♂ (376 bytes) () 07/31/2011 postreply 11:34:30