let's talk about 未来职业和学校的关系

first of all, you should let your kid pick 未来职业 they like.  Not what you think is best for them. 

Second.  MOST of ABC I know of, will NOT attend a graduate school like we all did. 

Both my kids had the idea of getting a Ph.D like their daddy did.  Once they are in teh college, both of them changed their minds.