I am really really mad !

I usually explore here underwater, but I am really really mad and need suggestion.

Just called my dad in China, found out he bought a new TV, over $4K RMB. Didn't aware of anything at that time. After I hang up the phone, I check the TV price is only 1k-2k, over 4K must be flat TV. :((

I got laid off on June. My dad knows that. Even though, I gave him $10K RMB because he got sick ( 70%-80% medical fee is covered by his insurance ), he only has to pay $2K.

What I don't understand is: He know I am jobless, and still spend money like that. His retailment income is only $2K RMB per month.

I tried to call him again to complain, but no one pick up anymore. He must go out now.

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• 好事做了，就别打电话了。得罪人也于事无补。 -碧云-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:42:58

• 得罪人? -taro_g- ♀ (239 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:47:24

• 现在商店都不卖tube的了。包括中国。另外中国电器真挺贵的。 -gingertea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:48:23

• Re: -taro_g- ♀ (234 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:55:31

• 我不知道具体价格。就是回去逛店的感觉。 -gingertea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:01:16

• Does it matter? -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 10:24:25

• 钱都给出去就算了，怎么花你就别操心了。 -碧云-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:56:42

• 回复：钱都给出去就算了，怎么花你就别操心了。 -taro_g- ♀ (524 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:01:17

• what do you mean understair person? -碧云-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:04:41

• Re. -taro_g- ♀ (18 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:09:29

• 楼下那个家伙？ -bayDAD- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:10:45

• 给人钱还要控制人怎么花？ -OCND- ♀ (193 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:53:17

• You are wrong ! -taro_g- ♀ (197 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:57:31

• 看得出你很生气，calm down吧。 -碧云-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 22:59:42

• 不知你看不看美国电视 -OCND- ♀ (321 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:10:37

• 回复：不知你看不看美国电视 -taro_g- ♀ (193 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:13:41

• here -xchmm- ♀ (130 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:30:18

• Thanks a lot ! -taro_g- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:43:00

• OCND, I watched << Everybody love Raymond >> -taro_g- ♀ (711 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 01:23:14

• 当然，核查是很重要的，奥总说了。 -千里一盏灯- ♂ (34 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 09:04:58

• 你父亲是做得挺过分的，若他再开口要钱，就 -cat69- ♀ (62 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:08:32

• Thanks, finally someone said so. -taro_g- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:11:44

• 你想听这些话？我明白了，你想对父亲说这些，可是又犹豫。 -碧云-- ♀ (20 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:17:37

• 回复：你想听这些话？我明白了，你想对父亲说这些，可是又犹豫。 -taro_g- ♀ (953 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:25:46

• don't give him less money and send money multiple times -xchmm- ♀ (97 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:33:12

• Give him less money each time and send money multiple times -xchmm- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:34:05

• If his retirement money is enough for a living in your hometown -xchmm- ♀ (117 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:35:59

• I am thinking about that too. -taro_g- ♀ (298 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:36:56

• I'd take 碧云's idea. Losing job is a good excuse -xchmm- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:38:36

• Tell your dad you cannot support him until you find a new job. -碧云-- ♀ (82 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:35:33

• It's not totally about TV -taro_g- ♀ (336 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:41:49

• you need to -胡桃架子-- ♀ (33 bytes) () 12/26/2009 postreply 23:51:08

• Thanks everybody, I am calm down now. -taro_g- ♀ (82 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 00:11:57

• 能帮到你很高兴。 -碧云-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 00:14:17

• Thanks, 碧云 -taro_g- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 00:23:08

• 看不懂，你父亲为什么不能买那个电视？ -kkliu- ♀ (75 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 05:38:45

• 你没读楼主的帖子？楼住失业了，她父亲花女儿的钱不心疼。 -甜齿- ♀ (161 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 19:53:46

• 十分同情～ -水儿~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 06:10:10

• 他就知道你怕他找你妈闹，所以心安理得地花你的钱。 -Tree100- ♀ (481 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 06:19:12

• Yor are mad, because you put $ and RMB together:) What do you me -dahaiyang- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 07:13:26

• 赛翁失马，焉知祸福？ -big_benz- ♂ (365 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 07:29:39

• 嗨，给出去的钱，泼出去的水。要不，你下回让他实报实销。 -jellybean3- ♀ (70 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 07:46:52

• 很多老人有攀比心理 -iMe- ♀ (51 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 07:58:20

• 教你一招 -alecwang- ♂ (139 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 08:09:35

• 不必要难过. 以后自己有困难, 就不要给家里寄钱了. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (286 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 09:08:41

• 回复：I am really really mad ! -xiaofengfeng- ♂ (182 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 09:53:52

• TV is 4000￥， not 4000$。 -kkliu- ♀ (376 bytes) () 12/27/2009 postreply 10:21:38