I also hope to see more donation. Pushing may not be the best me

At least donation should not cause family problem, right? My hu*****and is not a Chinese. He does not feel what I feel about this earthquake. He and I agreed on a number which I did a couple of days before. Now he is on a trip. I just donate once again. Hopefully he does not notice the number. If so, I would say, "Hay, this is my BD gift." :)