Guardian is for children, Trustee is for money

本帖于 2014-10-22 21:05:32 时间, 由普通用户 lexm5 编辑

If you die with underaged children, you need
(1) trustee to look after the money and
(2) the guardian to look after the kid, and the last
(3) the administrator takes care of money operation.

Guardian: guardian is only valid for the children. Guardian decides what time children go to bed, if children need major medical operation, guardian has to consent. Guardian can move children from school to school, etc etc. Guardian are legal parents.

However, anyone (including trustee, neighbor etc) can file a suit in court on behalf of your children against guardian if they found something fishy, just like school teacher can report your child abuse if you hit your kids.  After court proceeding, the court could reappoint other guardians.  

As long as guardian feed the kids and keep them clean, nothing can be done if kids doing poorly in school because those are not necessity of living.  So pick your guardian carefully if you want your kids go to ivy leagues after you die. 

Administrator: usually a bank or a lawyer, it takes care of paperwork, such as monthly check to the guardian for child care needs, occasional request from guardian for medical expense etc.

Trustee: Trustee make deicision on how to manage the money. If you have $1 mil, trustee manages how to invest it, which stock to buy, etc.

Ideally all these people are different so they can check/balance each other. You don't want one person doing all three jobs.

Guardian has to be one person or one couple. Administrator is just a bank. You should appoint as much trustee as you can find, so at least one person is honest enough to call the police (breach of duty) if other trustees are abusing power. Also, trustees make decision by voting, so you want odd number of trustees.

Yes, ideally trustees be living in US so that US law can reach them. Otherwise, who is stopping trustees to move money offshore to China? Your kids are in US their lawyer would have difficulties recover money from China.

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good to know -咖啡- 给 咖啡 发送悄悄话 咖啡 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 21:02:21

谢谢。原来还有银行做ADMINISTRATOR。TRUSTEE只做对钱的管理,又不开支票,为什么他们必须是要非常信得过的人而不是 -autumnleaf99- 给 autumnleaf99 发送悄悄话 (349 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 21:18:52

Trustee is based on Trust -lexm5- 给 lexm5 发送悄悄话 (618 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 21:32:10

银行做trustee的费用大概多少?有没有银行员工监守自盗, -autumnleaf99- 给 autumnleaf99 发送悄悄话 (79 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 21:41:33

LOL -sweetptt- 给 sweetptt 发送悄悄话 sweetptt 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 22:12:52

你活着把钱放银行怕不怕员工偷?莫名其妙的担心。 -lexm5- 给 lexm5 发送悄悄话 (142 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 22:30:55

哈哈,你开解得好,谢谢! -autumnleaf99- 给 autumnleaf99 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/22/2014 postreply 22:32:50

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