培养儿女财务独立 is more important than 培养儿女孝心.

If they can earn enough money themself, and they don't expect money from you, then they could have 孝心 freely, without conflict of interest.

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• 孝心扯上利益就太可怕了。怎么都这么悲观？ -MrsKwok- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 16:08:36

• 美国这个地方不太讲究孝心（比起国内哈）国内写道到法律了。 -jessefan- ♀ (214 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 16:20:59

• 哪都有好与不好的。顾家有责任孝顺的老外也是有的。美国可能社会资源对老幼妇孺比较关照。 -MrsKwok- ♀ (52 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 16:31:53