起因是,源于某个案例,群众们起了恻隐之心……
从统计上讲,绿同学天性善良一些。
但是,这并不表示别的同学不善良。只是实践有不同,识见有高低,谈话的层次不一样。有小孩犯错,很常见嘛,你是善良地给她吃糖,还是奖善罚恶引她上正途?从长远看,怎样才是慈悲心肠?这是个哲学问题,基于对人性的假设上,没有简单解。你是一味怀柔,还是一味刚猛,还是刚柔并济?
OK, you may say she is not kid anymore, she is ruined product already. 对社会上由于种种原因导致的弱者,也应该有一些恻隐之心。That's true but, think about this way also: if 山芋 for whatever reason to 网开一面 (well he kind of offered her to go back to her mother), that's irresponsible to himself, his family, his employees, his other tenants who pay... Why w/should he do this for someone he just met for months, rather than people followed him for years? Is that going to change her? No.
游戏 brought up another interesting topic. If I don't do it, there will be other people doing that, in that sense I probably will do better. That's true also. If none of us help those special group, they wouldn't be able to do that, but unfortunately we all know that's not the case. 我不入地狱,谁入地狱?Or, 君子有所为,有所不为。
Sorry brother JY.