more interestingly, the old widow across street is exactly like yours. Her hu*****and died of cancer in 2000 (Yellow Agent in Vietam War). She is 2-time breast cancer survivor. We live on a long pipestem. She "如果看到有可疑车子停在外面路上就会报警。" A couple of times we forgot to lock the front door, she came over to close the door for us, and of course left a note for us.
