I understood your pain. Haha, hopefully, we are different from them. We value what we earned by ourself, even it is not much!
Don't worry about your daughter, she will figure out. I bet the young genration is goign to be different from us again, just like we did with our parents. I remember last time when my daughter came back, I recommended her to buy a set of formal clothes for her job interviews next semester, she told me:" Dad, you do not know what stylish means..."
That was the first time I felt I was old.:(.