This is an exact case study to prove the house market affect economic growth. You are not alone. Lots people turn down the new offer due to own house selling issue. Without intelligent people resource available, how American economic can growth? Can new employer compensate the selling cost at least?
My personal opinion is: if your hu*****and is still under 50, just sell the house, take the loss and start rich again.
钱是身外之物。生不带来,死不带去。
小孩适应性很强,短期可能有点不高兴。马上就会有新朋友的。特别是现在网络技术,facebook,发达,可以和老同学保持联系。