错在太自私, sex desire takes effort from both sides

if there is a problem with marriage, one should take positive steps to save the marriage, the last thing to do is turn around and cheat the other.

marriage is not just about enjoying the life or having a good time, it's much more about responsibility and loyalty.

he abandoned his family, hurt his wife and children just for his john's sake? ridiculous

it's not even close to mid-age crisis. it's a pure irresponsible behavior and he should take all the consequences.

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• agree with what you said -swirlingflower- ♀ (149 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:22:17

• 说的太对了！ -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:26:06

• 对呀，他恐怕也没有尝试和老婆沟通，就直接向外面去找了 -tuzhirong- ♀ (405 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:26:59

• 其实他说的就是事实，很多男人的casual sex都没有被妻子知道，婚姻还继续和谐 -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:31:32

• 也许知道，但选择睁一只眼闭一只眼，也许不知道 -tuzhirong- ♀ (72 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:38:42

• 唉~我们出去开会，好多男的已婚的未婚的都钓妞，ONS，回去还做负责的人 -雨悠然- ♀ (58 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:44:58

• 嗯。世界这么大，这样那样的人都有 -tuzhirong- ♀ (152 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:01:04

• 我原来和你想得一样。现在比较能接受灰色地带了，现实里黑白的东西太少了 -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:45:04

• 我知道是因为要给他们腾房间。。。郁闷！ -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:57:49

• why only man needs 尝试, woman too, has the responsibility -swirlingflower- ♀ (14 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:39:29

• 当然双方都有责任，你说责任都在女方这未免太走极端 -tuzhirong- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:43:21

• yes, i only hear what man said, didn't listen from the wife -swirlingflower- ♀ (370 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:59:21

• right, marriage cannot work out without trust -阿巧- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:01:00

• come on, dont blame women for everything -阿巧- ♀ (637 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:59:29

• yes, not blaming women here -swirlingflower- ♀ (132 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:04:41

• 哈哈，痛快～～ -tuzhirong- ♀ (342 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:11:40