错在太自私, sex desire takes effort from both sides

if there is a problem with marriage, one should take positive steps to save the marriage, the last thing to do is turn around and cheat the other.

marriage is not just about enjoying the life or having a good time, it's much more about responsibility and loyalty.

he abandoned his family, hurt his wife and children just for his john's sake? ridiculous

it's not even close to mid-age crisis. it's a pure irresponsible behavior and he should take all the consequences.