Thanks a lot. My questions are: 1st, can he change his mind/behavior - i mean fix his mental problem, if he did take those counseling/class seriously – I suggested to him before but he denied he needs any help. Now he said he wanted to try...2nd, do you think I can put down something legally bonding with him now for the future if things do not work out and the worst happened. I am scared, not financially – I do have a somehow decent job as an accounting manager in a small company. The reason that I still wondering if I should give him another chance is because of our son, and maybe I still love him – he used to be my whole world… I know this kind of relationship is not healthy, maybe it’s time to change…please advice. THANKS.