回复：Domestic Violence - please advice

Thanks for all the kind advices. I know I sound silly or stupid, but when I look into my son’s eyes, while he’s trying to bubble some special ‘words’ and looked for his dad as he usually did when he wanted his dad to hold him, I can not stopping my tear. And I can not stop thinking of all those good times we had as I can not stop thinking all the bad things…We’ve been married for 8 years, 95% of the time was enjoyable with 5% of nightmare…I read some materials about abusers, as in the books, once an abuser, always an abuser… I do not know if that’s true… I know I have to be strong, if not for myself, at least for my son…sometimes, it’s easy to say and hard to do… especially… I guess I will get myself a lawyer, at least to understand what is my legal rights and option. I do not know if I can sign an agreement with my hu*****and to make his promise legally bond and put down everything I should have at this point of time for the worst – I mean, if I decide to give him another chance and after he cleared his record, he will take revenge on me and my son. i.e. file a divorce without giving us any support…(I won’t help him to give a false testimony in the court ,no matter what, not this time. I have done this before and lied to the police so he does not have any record. I do believe it’s time for him to learn his lesson and it’s time for him to understand from his deep heart, not from his mouth, that he must face all the consequence for his doing).

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• Great! We're witnessing the birth of a new woman:) -ntking- ♂ (18 bytes) () 04/07/2008 postreply 08:01:32

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• Answers -ntking- ♂ (3372 bytes) () 04/07/2008 postreply 09:46:24