看夫妻双方的完整故事. 不要看女人的一面之词

从浙江来的李某(男26岁)，01年初和蔡某某(女24岁)结婚，02年中以F1，F2入境美国德州，如今李某找到工作办永久居留，无端要求与蔡某某离婚，蔡家得知很气愤。
离婚协议如下：
当初结婚时男方扬言买房，食言，女方在10平方米的小屋里睡着沙发床，苦不堪言。
不要求赔偿，但要求向女方全家书面道歉，承认自己当初是个大骗子。
女方为男方留学所赞助2万元人民币，要求男方在工作1年后偿还。(男方月入5000美金，这点要求不算过分吧)
女方为男方留学，辞去工作，来美做尽苦力负担生活，没有上学，如今与国内生活模式脱离，不接受什么“海龟”更好发展的荒谬想法。要求男方离婚后安顿好女方的学习生活。
每月500美金的赡养费。(男方月入10%)
仅此三条不算过分的要求而已，如果无法兑现，不存在协议离婚。
另，如果男方疯狂作为对女方伤害的事，任何恐慌，骚扰，威胁，女方将申请法律援助，并揭发当初男方以假成绩入学美国。
另，在上海的家人不会放过男方在浙江的父母。
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文章来源: 我就是李某 于 2005-05-06 14:27:53



I want to divorce with you because of the following:

1. Everytime when we have an argument, you always present this 2万元人民币. But do you know what this 2万元人民币 can be used to do in USA? Do you know how much money I spent for us during these days?

2. After coming to USA, you always stay at home. You don't want to take Toefl & GRE, neither you want to find a job. In these past years, your main job is to fight with me. The reason is that I can't provide you house and nice car as some hu*****ands can provide. You ignore these hu*****ands' past, they also studied hard then worked hard to get these house and cars. You only know their present.

3. I just found a job. But you want me to send your family with half of my salary to buy a nice house for your brother. I said whether we can do it later since your brother has a house already, then we had a big fight.

4. Except me, you also have contact with several students here, even after our marriage. They are still single. Everytime you told me that you know your value in USA: as long as you are female, then you have market here. I know you are still contacting with them by MSN.

5. When I refused to send so much money to your family to buy a house for your brother, your brother always went to my parents to "educate" them: your son grew up already, you both can't be any burden on him. My parents don't want to hurt me, they didn't tell me until last week your brother took a flat TV and DVD away from them.

I can't bear such a wife any more. I just want my other half can stay with me, no matter the life is hard or happy. You can't be a such one. All you care is money.

所有跟帖： 

• 训妻论 -oldman411- ♀ (3281 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:01:46

• 把房子，车和其他财产转到你的父母名下。 -纯属意外- ♀ (484 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 20:20:45

• the guy up there is nuts, -jojo1971- ♀ (129 bytes) () 05/08/2005 postreply 16:47:31

• 这不是一家人，人家是打工养男人的 -面条好事者- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:02:17

• 有哪么巧吗? 那男的也说了两万元人民币,吵架的原因 -oldman411- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:06:35

• 老婆这东西是世界上万恶之源 -oldman411- ♀ (3187 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:03:44

• 同意最后一句 -面条好事这- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:06:03

• 回复：老婆这东西是世界上万恶之源 -frankdotne- ♀ (36 bytes) () 05/08/2005 postreply 09:52:03

• It's not fair to say that -AprilRain- ♀ (321 bytes) () 05/08/2005 postreply 15:40:50

• 这样的事在美国天天发生，看都懒得看，最好的结局：男人 -同意的回复- ♀ (361 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:17:20

• 回复：这样的事在美国天天发生，看都懒得看，最好的结局：男人 -niqusi- ♀ (24 bytes) () 05/07/2005 postreply 19:28:07

• 回复：回复：这样的事在美国天天发生，看都懒得看，最好的结局：男人 -shanghaiRe- ♀ (29 bytes) () 05/07/2005 postreply 19:29:30

• 回复：看夫妻双方的完整故事. 不要看女人的一面之词 -niqusi- ♀ (22 bytes) () 05/07/2005 postreply 19:31:55

• 另，在上海的家人不会放过男方在浙江的父母。 -这样的女人绝对不是- ♀ (10 bytes) () 05/09/2005 postreply 11:42:18