乌干达奇女子：一夫一妻失败后，嫁给了三个男人

近日，一名来自乌干达的36岁妇女在一夫一妻制关系破裂后，同时与三名男子结了婚，并因此成为了全国新闻头条。

Ann Grace Aguti是乌干达Teso社区一位基督教牧师的女儿，自从她决定嫁给多位丈夫以来，就一直与其宗派存在争执。

她总是为自己的选择辩护称，自己以前正如所在社区的习俗那样只嫁给了一个男人，但事实证明丈夫却令她非常失望。

 

她曾经想要一个“温柔而体贴的丈夫，可以满足我作为家庭主妇的所有需求”，但是其丈夫却毫无用处，

因此她离开了他，并决定再碰一次运气：一次性与多个男人在一起。

 

她的父亲Peter Ogwang牧师声称，虽然他的女儿目前嫁给了三名男子，但过去实际上人数更多，而且他和其他村民去年才驱逐了其中一人，起因是该男子用镰刀袭击了女儿。

他最近曾召集Amugagara社区全体成员企图将Aguti剩下的三名丈夫赶出她的住所，并声称他们无权住在那儿。

但是这位36岁的妇女却告诉所有人，她已经是成年了，与三个丈夫住在一起也是她自己的选择。

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一直以来，Aguti的三个丈夫：鳏夫兼退休警官Richard Alich、非常富裕的农民John Peter Oluka、以及高级学士Michael Enyaku都分别住在该女子的六间小屋里，并且据说相处得很愉快。他们一起吃饭，遵守Aguti的每一个指示。他们视她为一家之主，让她做出所有决定，包括同房命令。

Peter Ogwang牧师最终设法将这三名男子从其女儿的住所驱逐了出去，但这只是暂时的。

这位村长辩称这些人没有被引荐给他，因此如果他们想返回，他们必须获得适当的身份证明并将自己引荐给地方当局。

与此同时，这些人离开后都发誓还要返回。而截止上周，Michael Enyaku已经搬回了自己的小屋。

目前，以卖熟牛蹄为生的Ann Grace Aguti怀上第四个孩子已有六个月之久。

不过尚不清楚谁才是腹中胎儿的亲生父亲，因为Michael Enyaku并不是唯一一个宣称为此责任的人。

本文译自 Odditycentral，由译者 HTT110 基于创作共用协议(BY-NC)发布。

 

 

 

Ugandan Woman Marries Three Men at Once After Monogamous Marriage Fails

By Spooky on November 6th, 2019 Category: News

 

 

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A 36-year-old woman from Amugagara, in Uganda, made national news headlines for marrying three men at once after her monogamous relationship failed.

The daughter of a Christian pastor in Uganda’s Teso community, Ann Grace Aguti had been at odds with her clansmen ever since she decided to get multiple husbands. However, she always defended her choice by saying that she had been married to only one man, like it is customary in her community, but her husband had turned out to be a big disappointment. She had wanted a “tender, loving husband, who can provide all my needs as a housewife,” but he turned out to be utterly useless, so she left him and decided to try her luck again, this time with multiple men at once.

“My husband was useless and I remained the breadwinner. When I left him, I started looking for that special someone, but I have not yet found him because even now, I have to feed the men that I have. So, my search continues,” Aguti told the Sunday Vision newspaper.

Her father, Pastor Peter Ogwang, claims that while his daughter is currently married to three men, there were actually more of them in the past, and that he and the other villagers had driven away one of them just last year for attacking her with a sickle. He recently rallied the community of Amugagara to expel Aguti’s three remaining husbands from her complex, claiming that they had no right to live there. But the 36-year-old woman told everyone that she was an adult and that living with three husbands had been her choice.

Aguti’s three husbands –  Richard Alich, a widower and retired police office, John Peter Oluka, a fairly well-off peasant, and Michael Enyaku, a senior bachelor, all live in their own respective huts in the woman’s six-hut complex, and reportedly get on very well. They eat all their meals together and obey Aguti’s every instruction. They consider her the head of the family and let her make all the decisions, including the conjugal order.

“Her bicycle had developed a mechanical problem, so I offered to repair it. In the process, one thing led to another and I found myself here. I stay in that hut,” Richard Alich told the Sunday Vision about how he ended up with Aguti.

“I met her at a swamp where I was grazing my cows and joked about her taking me on as a husband too — and that was it. She allocated me a hut,” co-husband John Peter Oluka added. “We have lived harmoniously for close to a year now. I have no problem with my co-husbands. The consensus among us is that mummy (Aguti) determines the duty roster and her decision is final.”

Pastor Peter Ogwang managed to get the three husbands evicted from his daughter’s complex, but only temporarily. The village head argued that the men had not been introduced to him, so if they wanted to return, they had to get proper identification and introduce themselves to the local authority. The men left, but vowed to return, and as of last week Michael Enyaku had already moved back into his hut.

Ann Grace Aguti, who earns a living by selling cooked cow trotters, is six months pregnant with her fourth child. It is not clear who the father of her pregnancy is because Michael Enyaku is not the only one claiming responsibility.