which one will you choose

本帖于 2017-12-07 08:30:42 时间, 由普通用户 shangri-la 编辑

Dear all, I am in the middle of looking for career advancement opportunities and got three onsite interviews lately.  I have some gut feelings and would like to seek your opinion on which one you'd suggest to go further, provided they all end up with offers.

Company A: mid sized stable company, nice people (boss, boss' boss, peer), they really really need me, good career opportunity in terms of responsibility & visibility, A level compensation and work-life balance;

Company B: mid sized stable company, regular people (almost all women for boss, boss's boss, peers), they need me, good career opportunity in terms of responsibility, A+ level compensation and A+ work-life balance; voted as best employer;

Company C: small sized and great potential company, need to work extra hours compared to A&B, regular people (Indian boss, Chinese and American peers), they really really need me, very good career opportunity with larger scope of responsibility & higher visibility, A- level compensation and B work-life balance; title is one level up compared to A and B, so I assume total compensation would be very close for the three.

Commute wise C saves 10-20 minutes one way depends on the traffic.

I like the people the most in A, the compensation/benefit the most in B (but A won't offer much less), and the career opportunity in C.

 

Since I haven't been in the job market for over ten years, I'd like to solicit your input on how to make the selection.  Thanks in advance!

Sorry for typing in English...

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Congratulations! -圆老扁- 给 圆老扁 发送悄悄话 (288 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 09:02:12

谢谢 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 11:30:50

我本也以为不是B就是C,但按心中对不同考量的排行总结(见下面的回帖),竟然是A最好 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 11:39:10

我刚刚做了个分析表格,结果也是A胜出,是出乎我自己的预料的 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (3159 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 11:35:37

看来你的英文比一般中国人好太多,赚大便宜了:) -talkatwxc- 给 talkatwxc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 10:16:33

看看楼下那么多苦大愁深,你这是吃香喝辣啊! -talkatwxc- 给 talkatwxc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 10:51:32

年轻人摸爬滚打是锤炼啊,我这是才熬到收获的季节 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 11:30:34

以我的经验,永远不要选择印度老板,他们会说得很好,而且张口就来,实际决不是。随时变。逻辑混乱。 -妮可儿- 给 妮可儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 12:11:34

而且不负责任 -妮可儿- 给 妮可儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 12:13:50

谢谢妮可儿,我确实对印度人不是很感冒;但见到的这个貌似还算低调,不过确实有5% 他的话听不清 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (54 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 12:26:56

相信我,永远!没有列外。这是我血的教训。 -妮可儿- 给 妮可儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 12:33:04

真奇怪,我碰到的升到管理层的印度人,英文口音都不太带印度腔,非常好懂 -像龟的兔子- 给 像龟的兔子 发送悄悄话 像龟的兔子 的博客首页 (140 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 16:55:05

同感,如果有选择,最好避开。 -大文嚎- 给 大文嚎 发送悄悄话 大文嚎 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 07:52:04

B,不相信nice people,只相信money talks. -lookatme..- 给 lookatme.. 发送悄悄话 lookatme.. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 14:17:33

其实也不能说B和C的人不nice,只是觉得A的人性格上更投缘一些,气场比较合 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 15:37:02

你仔细看看下面妹妹的帖子,对西人的那套面子功夫,国人真不是一个层面的。再有best employer不是随便就可以拿到的 -lookatme..- 给 lookatme.. 发送悄悄话 lookatme.. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 15:47:34

+1。楼主有歧视女性的xian 疑,楼主莫非没被男性老板折磨过? -像龟的兔子- 给 像龟的兔子 发送悄悄话 像龟的兔子 的博客首页 (140 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 16:17:27

说的是,回想一下,最喜欢的一位老板就是女的,最不喜欢的是位男老板,接受您的批评 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (62 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 16:27:55

你想呀,如果钱多后来发现老板同事不好,心情并不太糟糕;钱多后来发现老板同事也好 -像龟的兔子- 给 像龟的兔子 发送悄悄话 像龟的兔子 的博客首页 (194 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 16:41:40

很有逻辑!赞一个 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 17:21:45

哈哈哈, -像龟的兔子- 给 像龟的兔子 发送悄悄话 像龟的兔子 的博客首页 (226 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 20:13:58

Ta还年轻,一看帖子就知道以后会来这里抱怨找出路的 -lookatme..- 给 lookatme.. 发送悄悄话 lookatme.. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 21:47:12

食得咸鱼抵得渴,自己的选择,没什么好抱怨的。但遇到事情来请教对策倒是可能的 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 07:26:22

太有才了!! -令狐冲.- 给 令狐冲. 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 08:06:54

咳,我就只从字面上来理解了哈,谢谢 -像龟的兔子- 给 像龟的兔子 发送悄悄话 像龟的兔子 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 15:05:30

A -qiaomaidou6- 给 qiaomaidou6 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/07/2017 postreply 19:33:37

B. Regular people is normal people. You don't always want surpri -鱼儿离不开水- 给 鱼儿离不开水 发送悄悄话 鱼儿离不开水 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 05:43:38

A和A+ 的work-life balance 是怎么算出来的呢? -慧惠- 给 慧惠 发送悄悄话 慧惠 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 14:29:06

业界口碑,福利工资都很好;那个+是因为best employer排名B比A靠前一些 -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/08/2017 postreply 20:15:54

B -孔方兄94- 给 孔方兄94 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2017 postreply 21:03:18

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