如果我是你 我会直接和欧洲人开火

我会confront him： Hey man, why did you do this? I am in charge here, and leading the design efforts. I don't like what you did, and this is not good team work.  We’ve discussed many rounds and nailed down the plan....if you don't like it and have some other ideas, I am open to hear them, you just need to talk to me, and we discuss, but you don't go behind without telling us and others.  We really need to work as a team.  Yes, we are here to deliver, we are not here to make friends, I am with you, but you have to respect your colleagues, and their efforts.  

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• 然后，两个人开始武斗？ -也想三生三世- ♀ (53 bytes) () 09/08/2017 postreply 23:50:33

• 这些话完全很正常，不会武斗，如果他不服，那么就是他完全不对了。干掉他也是要一步步做对 -TJKL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2017 postreply 23:53:16

• 我觉得他就是不respect你的leadership, 这个正好是个机会练习一下 -TJKL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2017 postreply 23:54:46

• 他牛逼的不行，当然不respect。 -也想三生三世- ♀ (68 bytes) () 09/08/2017 postreply 23:56:24

• 先找机会发飚练练吧，我见过很多中国或者亚洲工程师都不好意拉下脸说点难听话，这咋行呢。 -TJKL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2017 postreply 23:58:25

• TJKL 说的对， 直接在小组会或1x1挑明，这叫positive confrontation。他之所以干这么干就是吃准啦你不敢 -硅谷码工头- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/09/2017 postreply 00:04:19

• 老外觉得她是china doll 更本不放在眼里，所以更本不能对这个老外客气 -TJKL- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/09/2017 postreply 00:14:47