你这样做就对了.很多国内来的要很长时间才学的会.

他们不理解在资本主义社会你自己要为自己维权.这样反而能得到老板和同事的尊重.而且你对那个混混一定要划清界限.分工明确.你帮他干他该干的活,搞社会主义,互相帮助是反抗资本主义的反动行为.资本主义社会,人不为己,天诛地灭.这个"为己"不是国内污蔑的自私,而是真正的人权.美国人常爱说,爱哭的孩子有奶吃.实际就是一种通俗的经验之谈.资本主义社会的理论基础之一来自<Wealth of Nation>一书. 该书就强调了每个人都要争取自己利益:

“Every individual is continually exerting himself to find out the most advantageous employment for whatever capital he can command. It is his own advantage, indeed, and not that of the society which he has in view. But the study of his own advantage naturally, or rather necessarily, leads him to prefer that employment which is most advantageous to society... He intends only his own gain, and he is in this, as in many other cases, led by an invisible hand to promote an end which was not part of his intention”

你老板的熏陶,你公司的文化,保护我们的美国宪法,都是建立在这上面的.在中国你争取个人利益可能会被公司和社会击败(解雇,被人不耻,等等).在美国你不争取个人利益会被看成于美国社会格格不如.