emergent, help for ref. checking

The other side wants my current employer as ref,

but it is really a bad idea, I knew things will go really bad,

we all knew him, but not them, how to deal with this reuqest?? Thanks.

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• 想帮忙，但实在是没看明白帖子呀。估计是用英语写的吧。 -大写2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 11:10:39

• clarification -freecall- ♂ (96 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 11:16:21

• 回复：想帮忙，但实在是没看明白帖子呀。估计是用英语写的吧。 -灰衣人- ♂ (97 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 13:03:07

• 回复：回复：想帮忙，但实在是没看明白帖子呀。估计是用英语写的吧。 -灰衣人- ♂ (85 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 13:06:30

• You two snakes get out of my post! -freecall- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 13:11:39

• lovely! -HappyNow?!- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 13:34:01

• Truly! :)) -veggiedoggie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 14:09:29

• Daxieer, get out here! -freecall- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 13:13:56

• 这是非法的 -上山下乡- ♀ (137 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 11:18:23

• You can tell them... -上山下乡- ♀ (339 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 11:42:11

• Thanks !!!!!!!!!! 复回：You can tell them... -freecall- ♂ (61 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 13:10:10

• I don't want to jeaperdise my current job, there4, I am sorry ca -美国老土- ♂ (454 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 15:07:04

• 抱歉，咱们部队又有人违反群众纪律 -胡说之- ♂ (397 bytes) () 02/28/2012 postreply 15:51:08