重组风波 (八)

本帖于 2011-06-15 20:11:38 时间, 由普通用户 试霜 编辑

Hurt as I am, I don't think he was trying to be a dick. He was just brutally honest and stroke to the core. I was not prepared.

However, within 30 minutes he managed to find out more about me than any other manager did in the last 10 years. He's come a long way from avoiding me to offering to call me personally with the results.

I gave it my best shot, no regrets.

You know what? I actually feel very happy.

Not because my job now seems secure.

Not because I might have impressed anyone.

Not because I stood up for what I believe and what I deserve (well, a bit surprised by my own coolness :-))

I'm happy because, throughout the whole thing, I found out more about myself.

I finally found out that I still have passion about work.

I finally see my own potential, or I wouldn't fight for it this hard.

This makes me feel alive, and hopeful.

And someday, when my kids need to be encouraged to try their best against all odds, I'll know what to say.

For that, I'm happy, and grateful for what happened.

 

Thank you for reading.

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理解你的心情,我觉得你应答地挺好。 -Eveline- 给 Eveline 发送悄悄话 Eveline 的博客首页 (255 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:20:38

谢谢! 我也这么觉得. :-) -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:22:01

Good job. -Bluevale- 给 Bluevale 发送悄悄话 Bluevale 的博客首页 (209 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 06:27:28

Thank you! Yes there is always some luck involved. -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 07:42:31

很好。谢谢分享你的经历。继续。。。 -Copacabana- 给 Copacabana 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:29:45

没有啦! :-) -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:33:50

Did you get the job? -Copacabana- 给 Copacabana 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:35:20

结果要到六月底才出来. -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:36:14

Good luck. 祝你好运。在职场,就得象你这样敢斗。 -Copacabana- 给 Copacabana 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/15/2011 postreply 20:39:36

Very good story telling! Admire your courage and determination t -臭臭妈妈- 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 06:22:34

谢谢臭臭妈! 发现当母亲后我比以前更勇敢了。 -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 07:01:07

一口气读完,你真的很棒。good lucky。 -2008VGirl- 给 2008VGirl 发送悄悄话 2008VGirl 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 07:00:51

Thank you! I think I'm already a winner regardless of the outcom -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 07:32:42

indeed -2008VGirl- 给 2008VGirl 发送悄悄话 2008VGirl 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 07:50:02

你做得很好,不过,这个CTO也很敏锐。你的英文太好了。 -叶答- 给 叶答 发送悄悄话 叶答 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 21:07:28

回复:thank you for sharing your -xyz@wxc- 给 xyz@wxc 发送悄悄话 xyz@wxc 的博客首页 (52 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 07:25:20

Thanks for sharing. Admire you! Pls keep us updated -PleaseEnlighten- 给 PleaseEnlighten 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 08:22:17

回复:重组风波 (八) -美国老土- 给 美国老土 发送悄悄话 美国老土 的博客首页 (161 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 08:23:41

Give you kudos for standing up for yourself! -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (432 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 08:39:10

如果最后没要你,那肯定是因为有更好的人选,但你已经做到很好。就像你说的,是一个 -二胡一刀- 给 二胡一刀 发送悄悄话 二胡一刀 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 09:45:40

加油!! -猪啊猪- 给 猪啊猪 发送悄悄话 猪啊猪 的博客首页 (455 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 09:57:50

英文真好. -julie116- 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 16:55:44

You did a great job to fight back to secure your current positio -shh12345- 给 shh12345 发送悄悄话 (151 bytes) () 06/16/2011 postreply 22:33:18

Thank you! You have a very analytical and precise style. :-) -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/17/2011 postreply 10:43:35

Haha, I just wanted to say that your chance is still slim but -shh12345- 给 shh12345 发送悄悄话 (110 bytes) () 06/17/2011 postreply 20:13:50

你这个CTO很sharp -eyehalfopen- 给 eyehalfopen 发送悄悄话 eyehalfopen 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/17/2011 postreply 05:54:49

Yes. I actually look forward to -试霜- 给 试霜 发送悄悄话 试霜 的博客首页 (47 bytes) () 06/17/2011 postreply 10:44:20

It's July already. I am wondering what's the result? -us7749- 给 us7749 发送悄悄话 us7749 的博客首页 (275 bytes) () 07/08/2011 postreply 08:17:26

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