I am facing a dilema...

For those of you who remembered, I got a great offer and put in my notice last week,  the CFO in my current company has talked to me twice already since last week and said he'll do everything to make me stay. (That certainly makes me feel good, haha).

Today, he presented me a counter, matching the title, vacation, and more pay and bonus...most importantly, he offered me a position in M&A group, which is kind of a rare opportunity that doesn't come along very often...

I'm still weighing the two options, it's difficult and I'm not good at this....

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if you are absolutely not replaceable, -蕴冰- 给 蕴冰 发送悄悄话 蕴冰 的博客首页 (90 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:10:08

Nobody is irreplaceable:)) -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 12:32:49

Have seen any experts recommend to take counter offer -蕴冰- 给 蕴冰 发送悄悄话 蕴冰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 12:40:35

I see, I see... -大写2- 给 大写2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:18:33

2弟,怎么结巴了 -longnv- 给 longnv 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:36:34

不是结巴,他在扣巴 -胡说之- 给 胡说之 发送悄悄话 胡说之 的博客首页 (17 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:39:30

我很好奇,2弟去参加了“美国进步中国女青年”的相亲大会吗 -longnv- 给 longnv 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:46:43

刚从网上听说过这事,好象是夕阳红专辑吧。 -大写2- 给 大写2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:51:08

男女比例1:1.5,你要去的话,就是亮点啊 -longnv- 给 longnv 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:54:34

一般男女要是达到这个比例,那男人精尽人亡的可能性就很大了,使不得呀龙队长。 -大写2- 给 大写2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 12:02:02

坏了!老胡练成了1000里眼了。你看看我在抠谁脚丫子呢。 -大写2- 给 大写2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 11:47:25

回复:I am facing a dilema... -jobnan- 给 jobnan 发送悄悄话 (410 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 12:50:26

Thanks for the heads up! -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 13:17:31

You'd better not to stay -有木有!!!- 给 有木有!!! 发送悄悄话 (529 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 13:36:02

You can use the counter offer to counter your future employer fo -有木有!!!- 给 有木有!!! 发送悄悄话 (62 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 13:53:24

No, I don't care about more money, I just want to -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (47 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 14:04:18

Move forward, never look back. -胡说之- 给 胡说之 发送悄悄话 胡说之 的博客首页 (66 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 14:10:26

You don't have to, but this is the chance to get what you want. -有木有!!!- 给 有木有!!! 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 14:22:17

This could be risky -蕴冰- 给 蕴冰 发送悄悄话 蕴冰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 14:08:40

Generally if I speak out that I will leave, I will just leave -fanfan88888- 给 fanfan88888 发送悄悄话 fanfan88888 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 15:08:23

what kind of offer you got by the way. thanks -fanfan88888- 给 fanfan88888 发送悄悄话 fanfan88888 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 15:09:00

Don't stay. Leave!!! -bluevale- 给 bluevale 发送悄悄话 bluevale 的博客首页 (280 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 16:03:35

想想当初为什么要走?人际关系如何?风险多大?老板是否稳定?等等 -龙少爷- 给 龙少爷 发送悄悄话 龙少爷 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 16:41:39

都有OFFER了,就走吧。这地球离了谁都照样转。 -燕园- 给 燕园 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/10/2011 postreply 17:35:45

nothing is absolute -DStudent- 给 DStudent 发送悄悄话 (60 bytes) () 05/11/2011 postreply 12:10:24

俺专门去看了一些网上评论,结论出奇一致:妹妹你大胆的往前走,莫回头! -上流Man- 给 上流Man 发送悄悄话 上流Man 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/12/2011 postreply 08:11:21

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