大家帮我看看这个印度大妈算不算是sexual harassment or verbal abuse or bully?

最近同组的印度大妈频频出言不逊，大家帮我看看怎么办？

事例一：公开给我advises:

Don't you have flat shoes? Wear flat shoes!

Don't you have pants? Wear pants!

Wear socks! It will get you one day!

事例二：几次三番公开问我的年龄。给range,她不罢休。一定要确切年龄。

事例三：今天公然说：

Get a man! Or maybe get a woman. Hahahaha

然后说why don't you get a house? 然后说我想嫁阔佬。

平时就不喜欢此女。因为她has a reputation to get in other pp.'s business但是她坐我旁边。别人和我聊天她总不请自到。觉得她在attack me。

请大家支招

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• 算， -Beaujolais- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 18:13:53

• yes. Report to the HR. -worriedmom1- ♀ (22 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 18:59:48

• It's harassment, if you feel uncomfortable -胡说之- ♂ (359 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 19:00:54

• 不一定. 她有感受, 我们没在当场, 感受不到. -worriedmom1- ♀ (177 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 19:04:20

• 没写完，来个续集 -胡说之- ♂ (1017 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 19:52:13

• 很好的建议呀。 -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:12:27

• 谢谢大伙的回复。这个印度大妈很烦人。说点背景吧。 -彪悍的小石头不用多说- ♀ (517 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:17:28

• 要想公办就要收集证据，人证，物证，越多越好。 -Beaujolais- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:21:23

• 先不公办。她还有mortage还有teenager给留条后路。下次她囗无摭拦我就损损她 -彪悍的小石头不用多说- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 20:34:17

• 直接跟她说,hey, it's not your business -超凡脱俗- ♀ (56 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 21:07:27

• 对。我下次就说：mind your own business，mum! Or Get over it! Period! -彪悍的小石头不用多说- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 21:10:50

• your ID says it :) -超凡脱俗- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2011 postreply 21:31:48

• 100% harassment。另外你们的Dress code是什么？ -大写2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 08:07:12

• 没说不能穿裙子不能穿高跟鞋。我们要求formal我还被同事说you always look(dress) nice -彪悍的小石头不用多说- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 10:19:34

• 大妈经常在我穿的很漂亮的时候上下打量我（check me out) -彪悍的小石头不用多说- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 10:21:49

• 上照片证明“我穿的很漂亮” -半瓶水- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 10:39:32

• 收回这句话：）反正意思是大妈好几次上下打量我 -彪悍的小石头不用多说- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 13:14:18

• 你确定大妈不是老刘头变的性？ -大写2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/15/2011 postreply 13:56:33