different peopel have different opinion on good compensation

got an offer lately. A job that I like. Salary jumps to my satisfaction. Today, my friend at work tried to get some info on the compensation. I realized that his "good compensation" was way higher than what I would say "good". Are men mroe greedy than women? I read this somewhere that women are not aggressive in salary negotiation, feel embarrassed to talk about money. I am going to negotiate on relo package and feel very guilty and uncomfortable to even bring this up. and probably will not insist to get it. Are women weak species?

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• I do not agree that -灰衣人- ♂ (320 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 13:19:40

• Thanks and thank you for your advice -Cathy_Bay- ♀ (344 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 14:57:16

• 那倒不是，人和人的长远计划不一样，着重点不一样。 自己高兴就行。 -lavendar99- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 14:35:10

• in term of money -世界无童话- ♀ (106 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 16:03:14

• haha -猪胖子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 20:51:39

• 真的不必那么客气。 -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 16:51:00

• 国女的潜意识里，挣钱养家主要是男人的责任。 -我起哄我高兴- ♀ (36 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 20:28:29

• 老美想法也一样 -猪胖子- ♀ (32 bytes) () 09/13/2010 postreply 20:52:28