what would you do?

Hi, I am new here and wish I can type Chinese on this computer. But anyway... There is something that sometimes bothers me in the office and would like to know your opinion.

I work in a small office, so there are not too many coworkers there. There are two coworkers (a man and a woman) who are very close to each other. But both are married. They go to lunch almost every day. We've been working together for over a year now. In the beginning I did not notice, but gradually I noticed some pattern. Almost every time when the guy talked to me in a nice way, the lady would show an unhappy face and would not talk nicely to me.

After realizing this, I tried to avoid this kind of situation as much as possible. But the thing is we switch teams always, so it is unavoidable that me and the guy work in a same team. What I am trying to do is being as professional as possible. I only talk to him when necessary. It is not such an issue itself. However, with the time I feel this becomes some obstacle for me to develop a healthy working relationship in certain ways. I don't know if you would understand this. Or am I just being too picky and sensitive?

Hope I explained it in a clear way. Has anybody got into this kind of situation?

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• 回复：what would you do? -trickortreat- ♀ (85 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 16:30:01

• I understand your situation. you are not too picky and sensitive -herwife- ♂ (69 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 16:57:12

• 想不到男人也有这困扰啊 -猪胖子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 17:07:28

• 胖， 楼主八成是女性 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 17:08:54

• 我说herwife啊，很有经验的样子 -猪胖子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 17:10:06

• 好主意，别让她吃醋，想法子大家一起逗乐 -我边走边问- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 17:07:44

• Sounds good to me, thanks for understanding! -trickortreat- ♀ (58 bytes) () 08/17/2010 postreply 18:26:37