Why do I not like to work with Chinese?

来源: Guendawen 于 2010-06-04 10:04:28 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1658 bytes)

Yes, the title sounds very offensive to some people, I'm sure. But this is my true feeling these days.

I have noticed my working situation gradually changing when more Chinese join our group. The first difference is Chinese are hard-workers that willing to put in extra hours without pay constantly. When I'm the only one doing it in the team, the boss is impressed. But when there are so many Chinese colleagues around doing the same thing, well, the game starts changing. Boss starts to expect it as a normal behavior from Chinese. And suddenly, if I do not want to work long hours, I look like a lazy person. (I have to blame myself on this one too :(

The second difference is Chinese are well-known for obedient. We are so eager to please that tend to follow whatever stupid ideas our boss might have and never challenge them. Again, once this becomes a pattern in a Chinese dominant team, anyone who dares to raise a different voice will become an eyesore. Not a fun situation to be for any serious engineer.

The 3rd difference is Chinese male always look down on their female colleague, and do everything in their power to be-little or bad-mouth others work, so to present themselves smarter. Maybe this backstabbing technique is not limited to female colleague, but I'm sure it is only applied to fellow Chinese, never to Americans.

I don't want to list 4th, 5th ....

Just want to say, as a Chinese female, I really do not enjoy my working experience with Chinese male. This is a sad truth.

Sorry to vent my frustration here. Maybe someday I can meet some decent Chinese during work to change my opinion.

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• Agree! keep certain distance or start to look for -mylittlehome- ♀ 给 mylittlehome 发送悄悄话 mylittlehome 的博客首页 (177 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:13:38

• Thanks. -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (147 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:23:22

• ? -herwife- ♂ 给 herwife 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:18:43

• 哥！你该休息了。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:30:46

• 诈和呀，你好象是绿的，为什么这么跳跳地装蓝的 ? :-) -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (28 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:40:49

• 很sad的一件事呀， -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (68 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:48:24

• 觉得两个中国人那么掐太难看了，好女不和男斗 ... -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (14 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:57:59

• 根源和中国人在中国餐馆受的待遇是一样的吧 -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:03:46

• Haha:) -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:52:40

• Emn, does the gender really matter? hope you don't wear -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (20 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 10:57:12

• Well, it's hard to say -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (192 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:01:41

• 抱怨是不对的，不过俺竟然很有共鸣，尤其3rd one。 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (342 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:01:07

• "出来混得彪悍。" good point:) -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:02:53

• 妇女们不容易啊！偶尔有个害群之马，组织大家聊小蜜，还天天说。 (图) -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (308 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:06

• 补图 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (137 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:58

• 回复：补图 (图) -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (172 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:14:21

• "出来混得彪悍。" good point:) -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:04:17

• 诈老和，你这就不懂了。不来个2遍，不能表达老灰同学激动的心情。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:37

• 诈老和，周末换上你的红袜子高跟鞋，代领大家表演个丢手绢啥的呗。 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:24:19

• 咳，忘了说了，因为老板也换成亚洲来的了， -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (7 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:16:22

• 忍字头上一把刀，妹妹不成咱就挪挪。 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:49:05

• 回复：Why do I not like to work with Chinese? -猪不才- ♀ 给 猪不才 发送悄悄话 (1896 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:07:00

• 再得瑟着问一个：姐姐，这是不是传说中的周末普天同庆贴呀？hiahia -猪不才- ♀ 给 猪不才 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:11:43

• I know. -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (233 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:13:17

• Haha, I like 瞎搞瞎搞搞 contigo:) -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:17:24

• 严肃点，严肃点，姐姐们谈正经事呢！没事儿你先帮着BP堵会儿漏油吧~~ -猪不才- ♀ 给 猪不才 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:22:16

• Well said -直线也救国- ♂ 给 直线也救国 发送悄悄话 (57 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:43:08

• 我work overtime都是忙自己的事。 -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 17:02:00

• Great point -Renminbi_9- ♂ 给 Renminbi_9 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 22:14:41

• fair enough -zbj8888- ♂ 给 zbj8888 发送悄悄话 (679 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:15:35

• Thanks for the kind word. -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (87 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:24:22

• I only worked with one chinese male colleague B4 -直线也救国- ♂ 给 直线也救国 发送悄悄话 (447 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 11:57:13

• 回复：I only worked with one chinese male colleague B4 -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (297 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:20:14

• Your boss will never say that he expect you to stay late, or -直线也救国- ♂ 给 直线也救国 发送悄悄话 (338 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:34:32

• 回复：Your boss will never say that he expect you to stay late, or -Guendawen- ♀ 给 Guendawen 发送悄悄话 (136 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:18:51

• 有体会，以前俺比较愣跟人比tough，发现事倍功半。现在俺越来越会买长处了。 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (342 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:22:16

• I am a female and totally agree with 3rd one. -samom- ♀ 给 samom 发送悄悄话 (244 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:32:46

• Good thing is that I am really彪悍. So I enojoy seeing them acting -SAMOM- ♀ 给 SAMOM 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 12:36:34

• hahaha...certainly can't go back to China -cAthy_Bay- ♀ 给 cAthy_Bay 发送悄悄话 cAthy_Bay 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:10:58

• 特同意，回去俺肯定歇菜。 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:33:25

• 为啥？ -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:39:45

• 回复：为啥？ -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:44:52

• 有道理。 -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:55:20

• 没共鸣。我挺喜欢和国人同事的，特别是国男同事。 -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:28:56

• that's because you are beautful and sexy. -help13- ♂ 给 help13 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:32:16

• 俺确实不beatiful也不sexy，但俺觉得小谋主要因为行业差异。 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (110 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:37:14

• 我是自己认为自己是又beatiful也sexy，别人怎么看我无所谓。 -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:43:49

• 小谋妹子，你驴子阿姨一贯风格就是埋汰自己，俺自己都不当真你也别当真啊。 -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:46:57

• 我就一毛病，特当真。你说啥我信啥。 -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:49:14

• 多好的闺女啊，模样俊，还心眼实诚 ^__^ -驴驴- ♀ 给 驴驴 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 13:54:52

• 你看过她PP？ -:-}- ♀ 给 :-} 发送悄悄话 :-} 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 16:47:25

• 理解你. 很多中国人最恨中国人 -kwH4E3GW- ♀ 给 kwH4E3GW 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 14:55:42

• 是不是我没跟国人一起工作过？ -猪胖子- ♀ 给 猪胖子 发送悄悄话 猪胖子 的博客首页 (69 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 16:03:53

• I don't agree -renminbi_9- ♂ 给 renminbi_9 发送悄悄话 (2431 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 22:13:12

• 回复：I don't agree -弱鸟- ♀ 给 弱鸟 发送悄悄话 (354 bytes) () 06/05/2010 postreply 09:59:58

• I still don't agree -Renminbi_9- ♂ 给 Renminbi_9 发送悄悄话 (619 bytes) () 06/04/2010 postreply 22:23:01

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