回复：What can I do?

工作中常会在不同阶段遇到小人。不太了解你的行业。但我的经验是：

1。保护自己不受伤害：最主要的是赢得manager的信任。这点看来你好像有。再有要document everything.So even there is a phone call agreement etc, leave e-mail evidence.Copy other people, or escalate when necessary. Don't be shy on bringing the issue up with your manage.

2.Judge the situation without bias so in other people's eye you are always handling things properly. Then the problem will be always on the other side. So they will not think you are same type as the other person.

3. 不管对方手段多么恶劣，一切都是暂时的。一定要相信you are far better than him (her).You will soon be at a completely different career track and much better future. He(she) will most likely stuck with what he got forever or even worse.这不是阿Q精神，我见到太多这样的例子了

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• Very good. -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/16/2010 postreply 09:41:50

• 讲的真好。 -吃糖？- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/16/2010 postreply 10:13:54

• Thank you! -icevanilla- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/16/2010 postreply 10:44:25

• Yes, very good. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/16/2010 postreply 12:01:48