An excellent article

Very good advice. my comments:

(1) "首先就不能给那个欺负你的人，第二次凌辱你的机会。". Do it professionally, learn how to play the game by the rule. "Good communication" is a key part.

(2) If you do not want to leave, try to keep yourself happy at your work place. You need to let it go, and shift your focus away from the past toward the future. "Forgiving", no resentment.

(3) "任何一种东西，如果它不能压垮你，那它就只有成就你。"
from 职场生存二 之鲟鱼老板 by 紫花花.

(4) "改变所能改变的，接受不能改变的，有智慧去区分这两者的区别" from 美国公司杂记 来源: doublehelix 于 09-02-17 18:55:02"