Thanks for all the advice down there.

Some incident happened in the past couple of days, which made it clear to me that my boss and big boss do not want to make me stand out of the crowd. But some people higher than big boss recognized the work or contribution. It was a good thing. But given the background behind it, it becomes annoying.

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I just do not understand why? -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 06:44:22

离! -''''''- 给 '''''' 发送悄悄话 (240 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 06:50:29

我想LZ和直接老板的关系还挺好 -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 06:55:36

yes. -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (278 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:10:54

回复:yes. -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (256 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:19:23

your reply reminded me of sth he said -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (127 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:28:13

回复:your reply reminded me of sth he said -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (134 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:32:09

interesting comments. Thanks. this kiss-up would be -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (16 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:35:35

that's good. why not talk with your direct boss about your conce -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:21:58

about your concern. -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:22:23

Maybe her direct boss doesn't really support her in front of her -''''''- 给 '''''' 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:03:38

in front of her big boss -''''''- 给 '''''' 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:04:11

from an insider, my boss was very fair to me -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (39 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:52:47

其他人不会喜欢你 -future2020- 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (191 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 09:17:22

hey, are we reading the same book now? -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 12:41:18

i finished a book from the same author of "3 signs" -future2020- 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (297 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 12:59:39

glad we are not using the same library. My copy will arrive -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (9 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 13:33:37

thanks for your recommendations! they are very helpful. -future2020- 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (82 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 13:49:59

thanks. I already got it. -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 13:57:05

btw, I like that author's style. they shoud make movie -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (19 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 13:34:48

yes. very easy reading, and i like its novel style with all the -future2020- 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (34 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 13:51:31

exactly. I can just practice those sentenses in the book and -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (29 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 13:58:22

地球离开谁都转! -黄国人- 给 黄国人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:11:20

别再自为折磨,有所为有所不为。 -jill08- 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 06:51:01

千万别找女老板,这点事儿Cathy这么强的女老板都想不开 -龙少爷- 给 龙少爷 发送悄悄话 龙少爷 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:57:05

Embision -jill08- 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:16:02

Typo:Ambition. LOL -jill08- 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:17:30

龙少,你说说为啥? -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (53 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 09:12:43

回复:龙少,你说说为啥? -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:47:29

is this right?? -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (231 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:49:35

too bad you don't have someone to cover your back... -难得小马甲- 给 难得小马甲 发送悄悄话 (969 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 11:14:59

ding! well said! -future2020- 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 11:20:07

I would agree with you. -cAthy_Bay- 给 cAthy_Bay 发送悄悄话 cAthy_Bay 的博客首页 (320 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:22:22

Down where again, Ms.? -qianzou- 给 qianzou 发送悄悄话 (353 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:58:42

Okay, I plead guilty... -qianzou- 给 qianzou 发送悄悄话 (104 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:16:49

no no,I learned something there. but很疑心你的id:牵走?牵走who啊?hiahia -veggiedoggie- 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:26:31

牵走who啊?hiahia -veggiedoggie- 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:27:03

偶咋脚得是"欠揍" -''''''- 给 '''''' 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:28:57

哈哈哈哈 -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:31:32

hahaha -veggiedoggie- 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 08:33:44

Lessons from Obama's health care reform -Easy.Spin- 给 Easy.Spin 发送悄悄话 Easy.Spin 的博客首页 (406 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:20:14

Even Obama has to get enough people to back him in order to pass -future2020- 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (31 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:42:26

good reasoning -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (399 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 10:44:44

Or you could be like Obama, stay put:) -Easy.Spin- 给 Easy.Spin 发送悄悄话 Easy.Spin 的博客首页 (271 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 11:02:11

回复:Or you could be like Obama, stay put:) -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (160 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 14:33:39

good point guys. -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 Cathy_Bay 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/29/2010 postreply 09:25:22

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