to qingshangdi66, just in case you do not read my reply

You have to realize that your boss bought lunch for u is kind of his "right", or in other words showing his power. You are not in the position to buy lunch for him, because you r not "high" enough. You should let your boss enjoy his power by appreciating he bought lunch for you, but rather than showing him that "who cares about the free lunch, I can pay you back." In simple words, you will have to know your position, and behave accordingly. When you become a boss of somebody, you can also buy lunch for the others, in a way showing your power.

Remember, you will need to know, to understand who u r! I remember that I brought our group for lunch, a guy who just came from China, insisted to pay for the whole group (I should pay). Honestly, he really pissed me off!! I do not like him since then.

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Are/were you Chinese? it's the cultural discrepancy. I think she -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (25 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:06:47

I have used tough words in the post, because -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (217 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:12:34

Don't feel sorry. A question is just a question. I can see you -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (109 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:20:24

Very smart. -jill08- 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (34 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:11:10

since I already wrote, probably just add more. -Smart- 给 Smart 发送悄悄话 (539 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:32:52

您说的很对,可是 -veggiedoggie- 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (708 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:37:25

sorry, I cannot provide more details/context. -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (203 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:43:16

我的明白,老大,别介意嘛:) -veggiedoggie- 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (398 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:51:32

回复:to qingshangdi66, just in case you do not read my reply -yijibang- 给 yijibang 发送悄悄话 yijibang 的博客首页 (318 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 09:43:08

I explained this in the last email. But have some -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (1006 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 10:03:04

You know where you are -如风网事- 给 如风网事 发送悄悄话 (175 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 11:35:20

真是太好了,我整天想吃 free lunch,可是我的 boss 从来 -HenryLi- 给 HenryLi 发送悄悄话 HenryLi 的博客首页 (23 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 13:15:14

u know better than any other, -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (31 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 13:34:50

噢, 不过医院里很多 free lunch 的。 -HenryLi- 给 HenryLi 发送悄悄话 HenryLi 的博客首页 (185 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 13:41:25

Because we don't make good money by working in the hospitals. LO -jill08- 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 15:02:34

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