to qingshangdi66, just in case you do not read my reply

来源: Smart 于 2010-02-08 07:58:38 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (815 bytes)

You have to realize that your boss bought lunch for u is kind of his "right", or in other words showing his power. You are not in the position to buy lunch for him, because you r not "high" enough. You should let your boss enjoy his power by appreciating he bought lunch for you, but rather than showing him that "who cares about the free lunch, I can pay you back." In simple words, you will have to know your position, and behave accordingly. When you become a boss of somebody, you can also buy lunch for the others, in a way showing your power.

Remember, you will need to know, to understand who u r! I remember that I brought our group for lunch, a guy who just came from China, insisted to pay for the whole group (I should pay). Honestly, he really pissed me off!! I do not like him since then.

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• Are/were you Chinese? it's the cultural discrepancy. I think she -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (25 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:06:47

• I have used tough words in the post, because -smart- ♂ 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (217 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:12:34

• Don't feel sorry. A question is just a question. I can see you -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (109 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:20:24

• Very smart. -jill08- ♀ 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (34 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:11:10

• since I already wrote, probably just add more. -Smart- ♂ 给 Smart 发送悄悄话 (539 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:32:52

• 您说的很对，可是 -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (708 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:37:25

• sorry, I cannot provide more details/context. -smart- ♂ 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (203 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:43:16

• 我的明白，老大，别介意嘛：) -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (398 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 08:51:32

• 回复：to qingshangdi66, just in case you do not read my reply -yijibang- ♂ 给 yijibang 发送悄悄话 yijibang 的博客首页 (318 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 09:43:08

• I explained this in the last email. But have some -smart- ♂ 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (1006 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 10:03:04

• You know where you are -如风网事- ♂ 给 如风网事 发送悄悄话 (175 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 11:35:20

• 真是太好了，我整天想吃 free lunch，可是我的 boss 从来 -HenryLi- ♂ 给 HenryLi 发送悄悄话 HenryLi 的博客首页 (23 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 13:15:14

• u know better than any other, -smart- ♂ 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (31 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 13:34:50

• 噢， 不过医院里很多 free lunch 的。 -HenryLi- ♂ 给 HenryLi 发送悄悄话 HenryLi 的博客首页 (185 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 13:41:25

• Because we don't make good money by working in the hospitals. LO -jill08- ♀ 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/08/2010 postreply 15:02:34

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