比较气愤

Have seen many comments online about how difficult to relate to Indian colleagues. I thought it’s a little prestigious until recently. I used to work with this guy in my previous company and he recently applied a job at my current company. I had not known him so well, except he seemed nice and technically strong. I interviewed him and recommended him. He joined us two weeks ago.

He wanted to carpool with me to work. Considering almost 30 miles each way and I didn’t think it’s a bad idea. So he drove for two days of a week when I didn’t have after work activity. It seems ok.

Next week, I drove three days. He came to my office and asked when to leave, I would say let’s go now. Then I dressed and was ready to go and went to his desk he was not packed yet. Then he would go to toilet and asked me waiting outside for him. I was thinking this didn’t worth the trouble at all and plan to not carpool again when this week ended. On Friday, he came to me and we agreed to leave in 10 mins. Like before I dressed and found he was talking with our boss. I waived at him, I waited a few munites, he was still talking with the boss. So it went for 30 minutes with me wearing a heavy coat and standing there visible from his angle. Finally he ended the conversation with boss. Of course, packed, put on coat and told me he needed to use the toilet again… ...

I told him, we would not carpool from now on. He said, “why? I thought we were doing so well”. I said: you think so? Then he started to apologize and said he did not want to say no to our boss. I said, I am sure he will be fine to continue the conversation tomorrow. it’s not urgent work related.

So this week I drive by myself. He stopped at my cube yesterday asked if he could pick me up and carpool. I said no. He said, well I know you are busy this week and how about we start carpool next week. I didn’t answer. At lunch he walked to me and ask me to go to lunch, I said I already had arrangement. Maybe next day.

I feel bad to reject to him, so today I asked him to go for lunch. He said he would meet me at café because his wife packed him lunch and he need to warm it. I bought my lunch downstairs and finished it without seeing him. Pretty much pissed off, I was on my way back to office, there he came. He told me he was waiting for our boss to join him. I said to him, “you are not very nice to me but definitely very nice to our boss. But you don’t have to let me eating alone just for waiting boss 20 mins THAT sort of nice”.

How could not I kiss a** like that? I just have too much pride and am too nice to ignore my colleague.

For sure, I am done with this guy.

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He is just a typical indian guy -天天快乐吗- 给 天天快乐吗 发送悄悄话 天天快乐吗 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:52:58

CO: He is just a typical indian guy -牧童遥指- 给 牧童遥指 发送悄悄话 牧童遥指 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:55:02

sigh... hate it. learned and will never -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (29 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:59:01

都是小事, 别太在意了. 你可能是那种比较自律的人, -牧童遥指- 给 牧童遥指 发送悄悄话 牧童遥指 的博客首页 (336 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:54:35

I already told him that's not very nice of him -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (130 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 10:58:18

消消气,印度人尽量远离,避不了就保持距离.真的很小人. -小虾米- 给 小虾米 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:04:18

你住啦,印度人尽量远离,避不了就保持距离.真的很小人. -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:07:16

????? -小虾米- 给 小虾米 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:09:39

你住啦--》记住啦;) -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:17:03

GOOD GIRL! -牧童遥指- 给 牧童遥指 发送悄悄话 牧童遥指 的博客首页 (78 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:04:28

谢谢你,下线了,再会~ -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:07:47

老印做事很不上品,很让人不屑. -小虾米- 给 小虾米 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:08:12

其实你若不想carpool,找借口不难 -布衣之才- 给 布衣之才 发送悄悄话 布衣之才 的博客首页 (77 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:09:36

高, 记下. 谢! -牧童遥指- 给 牧童遥指 发送悄悄话 牧童遥指 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:14:09

只是个简单的原则 -布衣之才- 给 布衣之才 发送悄悄话 布衣之才 的博客首页 (80 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:59:53

谢谢 -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:17:36

我觉得你是个很MEAN的人 -新北京混混- 给 新北京混混 发送悄悄话 (360 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:29:49

U should be proud that we chinse women still has self-respect -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (84 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:23:02

My Hat Off To You -黄国人- 给 黄国人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:29:12

not sarcastically? ;) -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:30:41

NO. You do the right thing !!! -黄国人- 给 黄国人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:55:13

One time is OK, but twice, it means no respect. -黄国人- 给 黄国人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:58:07

nod,nod. -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (130 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 16:11:37

在这路过看见自家mm,抱一个~~ -紫花花- 给 紫花花 发送悄悄话 (279 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:36:07

"现在是不是在xxx工作" --> 余香久久不能散去。 LOL -ryu,- 给 ryu, 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 11:54:01

回复:在这路过看见自家mm,抱一个~~ -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (284 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:18:21

我蛮喜欢印度佳丽的,因为她们有我喜欢吃的羊肉的味 -ryu,- 给 ryu, 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:26:31

俺以为您only喜欢eagle meat的说~~ -紫花花- 给 紫花花 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:38:31

那不是学熊老说话吗。要不我学熊老写一儿歌给你 -ryu,- 给 ryu, 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:44:57

哈哈,看懂了,为妹妹难过;) -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:29:42

你高兴就好,俺挺的住 ;) -紫花花- 给 紫花花 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:39:57

MM, look for another job. -bluevale- 给 bluevale 发送悄悄话 bluevale 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 12:42:45

还好,俺刚打听过了,今年香水流行curry味的,俺银子都省啦 -紫花花- 给 紫花花 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 14:49:05

haha~~~,什么时候我也去你们toilet见识一下!! -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 15:00:52

好,这么不俗的品位, 俺门口收费~~ -紫花花- 给 紫花花 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 15:20:19

你还等他半个小时,要我开车早走了,他爱怎么回就怎么会吧 -世界无童话- 给 世界无童话 发送悄悄话 世界无童话 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 17:35:55

I wanted to,担心软了就自己难过吧 -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 21:19:09

印度人不以骗人为耻,所以不要全部相信他们的话. 信50%而已. -acclaim2008- 给 acclaim2008 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 18:03:43

I want to treated like I treated him, that's all -梅石莹玉- 给 梅石莹玉 发送悄悄话 梅石莹玉 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2010 postreply 21:19:47

You are a nice girl. All he wants is to take advantage of you. S -acclaim2008- 给 acclaim2008 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/21/2010 postreply 19:54:36

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