痛苦啊痛苦,大家看看我怎么办?

几个月前,到一个中国人手下做博士后,没想到这是我噩梦的开始。老板巴不得我一天到晚都干活,还明确说,从没听说过博士后感恩节不来干活的。我每天在实验实呆9个多小时,周日还去加班(几乎一整天),可老板还觉得我工作不hard.我真不想干了,可一时半载又找不到工作。我不是不愿意努力,可那种感觉很难受。如果不是有个孩子要抚养,我真想回国休息几个月。大家帮帮我,如果你知道你周边的实验室需要招人,能否把信息发到悄悄话里。我是生物背景。我有绿卡,换工作不是问题。自从来了这个实验室,我觉得自己就再也笑不出来了。
不知这里是否有和我想同倒霉的人?

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还是一边做着一边找,找到了马上辞职。 -闹闹猫- 给 闹闹猫 发送悄悄话 闹闹猫 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2009 postreply 22:34:39

你算是幸运的,如果在中国人手下读博士,你死定了。 -Letstalk- 给 Letstalk 发送悄悄话 Letstalk 的博客首页 (62 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 00:29:24

事情没这么简单。 -sigma- 给 sigma 发送悄悄话 (312 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 06:11:54

你是不是整天公事公办呀?拉关系,拉关系,拉关系! -蒙蒙雾- 给 蒙蒙雾 发送悄悄话 蒙蒙雾 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 07:19:32

I have different suggestions than others. -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (521 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 07:39:25

你说的很好,问题不能一概而定。 -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (269 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:01:53

btw, it's not "word". should be "work". just can't help, haha.. -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:10:28

actually should be "working". sorry for the typo. -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:27:37

r u sure? :) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:41:01

u r right. Sorry! -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:43:35

hehe, i'm teasing. I thought u knew it.:):) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:45:52

sorry. i'm teasing u. don't take serious,pls:) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:44:07

no, not at all. -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (52 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:46:39

really? actually inputting Chinese is extreamley hard for -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (62 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 10:54:51

Smart is smart and right. -coolwin- 给 coolwin 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 22:27:17

回复:I have different suggestions than others._second your opinion -testweb- 给 testweb 发送悄悄话 testweb 的博客首页 (94 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 19:18:45

he is an assistant professor? working on tenure? -oldbrick- 给 oldbrick 发送悄悄话 (34 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 12:00:41

never say never. When I was a grad student and postdoc -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (139 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 12:36:07

oh. Sorry. You need to get a life. -oldbrick- 给 oldbrick 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 12:37:59

relax, my friend. -Smart- 给 Smart 发送悄悄话 (494 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 13:01:08

oops, the same word, "work". but you missed "ed". -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (22 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 12:43:16

okok, today u r the target of my teasing:). sorry, Mr. PHD:) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 12:45:32

:) -smart- 给 smart 发送悄悄话 (55 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 12:55:07

actually, -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (248 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 13:13:27

oops, whose English is super as yours...:) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 13:17:19

谢谢各位!!! -yumenzhong1- 给 yumenzhong1 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 20:41:43

That is nothing, my H works 14 hrs/day -NeiNei- 给 NeiNei 发送悄悄话 (114 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 19:20:18

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