How to handle the boss who is very religious

My boss goes to a Baptist church, and he is very religious. I have been working for him more than 3 years. About 2 months ago, he brought me a pamphlet from his church and wanted me to read it. Today, he asked me whether I had read it in the middle of the review(my review went well) and wanted to treat me for lunch and talked about it. I replied I brief read it and we have our own church to go to. He said he understood it. After some talks, he came back to this topic again and said he considered me as a friend that is why he wanted to talk with me and he still wanted to go to lunch and just asked several questions. I was not sure how to reply and kept a silent. I like what I am doing now, don’t want to lose it, however I don’t want to start this kind of topic either. What should I say if he asks again? Is there a better way to handle this? Any advice is welcome. Thanks in advance.


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诚心请教他就好了,给人老头一个机会,也是给自己一个机会 -魔法彩虹- 给 魔法彩虹 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 20:08:29

回复:诚心请教他就好了,给人老头一个机会,也是给自己一个机会 -acct09- 给 acct09 发送悄悄话 (95 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 20:10:50

你是虔诚的其他教徒吗,所以抗拒 -魔法彩虹- 给 魔法彩虹 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 20:12:34

回复:你是虔诚的其他教徒吗,所以抗拒 -acct09- 给 acct09 发送悄悄话 (134 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 20:21:24

Agree,超难搞。 -jill08- 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (57 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 23:20:09

你不该撒谎。这很丢人。这种事人人都会遇到。常见四种方式 -letstalk- 给 letstalk 发送悄悄话 letstalk 的博客首页 (442 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 04:25:17

赶紧应邀午餐,解释自己怕让他失望而撒谎不该。然后点明立场 -letstalk- 给 letstalk 发送悄悄话 letstalk 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 04:31:26

你确信你也是去教会的??? -眼冒金星- 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 23:49:29

回复:How to handle the boss who is very religious -Kaolin007- 给 Kaolin007 发送悄悄话 (514 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 04:05:54

这事儿听上去很诡异。在工作场合劝自己的下属入教很不 -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (102 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 05:30:54

Your boss is not very professional. -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (41 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 08:12:20

这种事超级闹心,我一屋的一个同事就是那样,总和我说这些 -王简单- 给 王简单 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2009 postreply 11:36:31

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