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来源: Isthereaway 于 2009-11-18 19:04:31 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (767 bytes)

被现实情况压的喘不上气了,只好上来冒个泡,请大家帮忙想办法.先谢谢了!

我们已是人过中年,去年年底老公的公司关闭,他也随之走人,迄今为止,他一直呆在家里,上网接孩子.孩子也是老公自己要接的,本来可以不用他接的.我原来一直希望老公能够全力找工作,接孩子做饭我都一个人可以做,但他似乎很愿意分担家务似的.看着他百无聊赖的样子,我劝他出去走走,不管是去图书馆,或是别的与找工作有关的地方,甚至建议他开车出去转转,别整天呆在家里上网.可是任凭我说破嘴皮,人家仍然是我行我素,在家上网.问他人家说在找网上工作.经常发牢骚说不知干什么好,年纪大了,改行也不行了(原来的方向不好),现在的经济形势不好,工作不好找,等等.给我的感觉是他在找借口.我虽然在上班,办工资不高,加上孩子也大了,感觉到经济上的压力很大,可老公现在似乎很消沉,一点找工作的热情都没有.我怎样才能帮他走出这个低谷,让打起精神,赶快找到工作.

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• 理解你讲的,男人就是累 -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (137 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:34:42

• 我会试试的 -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (76 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:35:10

• bring him here, let's work it out together! -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:11:49

• 你是职场上的人 -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (73 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:31:18

• sorry, i always quit, never been laid off or fired..... -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (229 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:58:58

• 你真的很幸运，一定也很能干。 -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:30:23

• You MUST get him out of the house, maybe, arrange -3-leg-man- ♂ 给 3-leg-man 发送悄悄话 (112 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:20:32

• 谢谢! -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (89 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:27:46

• what about talking him into taking some -3-leg-man- ♂ 给 3-leg-man 发送悄悄话 (167 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:37:18

• 回复：what about talking him into taking some -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (131 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:41:29

• From what I can tell, he's not made for management, he -3-leg-man- ♂ 给 3-leg-man 发送悄悄话 (223 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:47:55

• 回复：From what I can tell, he's not made for management, he -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (117 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:51:27

• there's no such a thing of 低不就. He is what he is right now, -3-leg-man- ♂ 给 3-leg-man 发送悄悄话 (197 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 19:59:49

• 那就是他的mindset. -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (36 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:24:57

• Please do NOT add more pressure on him. -wxwxwxw- ♂ 给 wxwxwxw 发送悄悄话 (39 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:00:27

• 让他别找了，自己办公司当老板，啥赚钱干啥。 -wxwxwxw- ♂ 给 wxwxwxw 发送悄悄话 (16 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:03:00

• 同意你讲的,只是不知道现在什么生意好 -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:23:38

• try ebay -3-leg-man- ♂ 给 3-leg-man 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:24:56

• 别提了。 -Isthereaway- ♀ 给 Isthereaway 发送悄悄话 (83 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 20:27:28

• I wonder if he had ever thought to set up his own business -wxwxwxw- ♂ 给 wxwxwxw 发送悄悄话 (525 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:08:18

• 他有病了，要看医生。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:24:47

• Not necessarily. Just have low mood. It will be fine. -wxwxwxw- ♂ 给 wxwxwxw 发送悄悄话 (53 bytes) () 11/18/2009 postreply 21:51:26

• Leave him alone, give him a break. -oops_yz- ♀ 给 oops_yz 发送悄悄话 (43 bytes) () 11/19/2009 postreply 05:32:37

• We are on the same boat! -MyID89- ♀ 给 MyID89 发送悄悄话 (1606 bytes) () 11/19/2009 postreply 10:02:02

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