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Stay positive(zt)

Use positive thinking to reframe your thoughts about your job. Changing your attitude about work won't necessarily happen overnight or increase your job satisfaction overnight. But if you're alert to ways your view of work brings you down, you can improve your job satisfaction. Try these techniques:

■Stop negative thoughts. Pay attention to the messages you give yourself. When you catch yourself thinking your job is terrible, stop the thought in its tracks.
■Put things in perspective. Remember, everyone encounters good days and bad days on the job.
■Look for the silver lining. "Reframing" can help you find the good in a bad situation. For example, you receive a less than perfect performance appraisal and your boss warns you to improve or move to another job. Instead of taking it personally or looking for another job right away, look for the silver lining. Depending on where you work, the silver lining may be attending continuing education classes or working closely with a performance coach and having the satisfaction of showing your boss that you're capable of change.
■Learn from your mistakes. Failure is one of the greatest learning tools, but many people let failure defeat them. When you make a mistake at work, learn from it and try again. It doesn't mean that you're a failure.
■Be grateful. Gratitude can help you focus on what's positive about your job. Ask yourself, "What am I grateful for at work today?" If it's only that you're having lunch with a friendly co-worker, that's OK. But find at least one thing you're grateful for and savor it.

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• 哇, 你动作好快呀. 顶. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:59:17

• Learned it from hard way. -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:03:06

• Good, this could apply to everyone. Thanks -liveinca- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:13:04

• 这是骨子里的东西~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:15:41

• 一针见血 -世界无童话- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/04/2009 postreply 06:01:53