昨天post"怪事"

All the replies are verey insightful and for some of them, I did not even think of. Just to get more inputs, here is some more background.

Big boss has always been the one to make final decision. For my project, I make the design and he decides we want to do it. so in a sense, he has always been involved as the decision-maker. This time, he obviously wants to be involved more directly and asked me to include him in the team. I actually refused to ahve him initailly and he was fine with it except that he let me know that i need to report to him more frequently of the progress. I did nto want to have too many one-on-ones, so later, I added him to the team meeting. Now that my own boss and the other sr director are fighting for the leading role of this project, I think the big boss being included in the team would be a good way to leverage the 2 big wolves and let them back off a bit.

but I do want to ask big boss whether his intention was to make sure I do the right thing, meaning that he does not trust me to do the right thing or other intentions. BTW, I think he sabotaged my internal interview. I hope he did not, but at his level, it would be as easy as making a casual phone call. That internal position was just eliminated during "re-org", when the HM assured me of the position during interview. Should I confront him about this? I soooo want to.

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I was wondering what happened. re: 昨天post"怪事" -sunnylily789- 给 sunnylily789 发送悄悄话 (282 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 18:43:14

回复:I was wondering what happened. re: 昨天post"怪事" -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (271 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:10:32

当你有很多因素不确定的时候, -猪啊猪- 给 猪啊猪 发送悄悄话 猪啊猪 的博客首页 (251 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 18:47:42

I know you are right. -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (185 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:13:06

你可以想想你问完了的结果.. -猪啊猪- 给 猪啊猪 发送悄悄话 猪啊猪 的博客首页 (176 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:16:58

“上班的目的是什么?“ 现在就想知道,等不及了!! -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:37:46

have a good life. -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:39:03

or have a good wife? -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:47:37

I have learned one thing over the years working -Cathy_Bay- 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (394 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:37:53

true -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/07/2009 postreply 19:50:40

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