in case that you missed it

It seems that the company has no formal HR and lacks the code of conduct. You can sue them if they do take the illegal action.

Some other notes:

刚来看到有人监视自己的电脑很生气, 就质问他(觉得他没有权力这么做,因本人做会计,而他只是销售经理, 不应知道一些CONFIDENTIAL INFO). 于是他到处说我坏话. 但好在老板人不错,没理他.说我只向他汇报就行了.

-- You shouldn't have confronted the Sales Manager directly. Also, what do you exactly mean '监视'? Whatever, talk to your boss first, the person to whom you report directly. You don't know the sales manager's background. You dont' know if he has been granted privileges to know some data. In such uncertainty, ask your boss first. This is one of the so-called communication skills. Also, one of the so-called team work skills.

这个经理雇了一个人，这个人领取社会福利，不想工资付给她，想让我开支票用其他人的名字（她否则不能拿救济了）经理同意了，我与老板均不同意。我认为这么做是违法的。于是他到处散布我管的太多了，想ｔａｋｅ　ｃａｒｅ　ｅｖｅｒｙｔｈｉｎｇ．

-- Ignore her. If your boss said no, then you execute your boss's order. This is like in army. If possible, make other people know that the manager is asking for trouble for the COMPANY, and emphasize that your boss disagree with the manager.

我们单位有一个老太太，专门兴风作浪，我很是看不贯。经常背后说人坏话（我听到过她说每个人的坏话）。总说我坏话，当她看到我与ｓａｌｅｓ　ｍａｎａｇｅｒ有矛盾的时候，　就挑拨我们关系，说他不应该这么对我，我没有理她。

-- One big mistake when you 没有理她. it is understandable that you don't like her. But don't make an enemy with such people. Especially when she was on you side and you ignored her, or worse that you showed that you despise her. When she was on your side, you should provide your ears and patience. She was right the sales manager shouldn't treat your like that.

今天她联系所有的人，花了一上午的时间联系每个人，说要联合把我开除。并说再让我高兴几天（老板下周回来）。

-- Don't worry. If she had to unite "everybody" so as to kick you out, she doesn't have much power. People of power won't talk to others at all. They simply kick you out without your notice, and they would also give your some comfort while they are kicking.

One big lesson, however, is never ever to make enemy on such women. They are not powerful. They are very annoying and can make you unhappy at work.

-- In all, if the company is in HR mess, it is not worthy of working there, unless you have to due to other reasons.

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• Yes. I agree -pingping06- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/05/2009 postreply 20:27:51

• 赞成！总结的很好的 -前路漫漫- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2009 postreply 00:17:53

• wonderful, indeed. -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2009 postreply 07:10:47