I really want to quit.

I was trying to be obedient to my boss and learned not to argue with him. Whatever he said, I will say ok. If I didn't do it quickly, he will ask that if you finished what I told you to do. So I learned to ask him the deadline next time when he assign me the new project. The answer is always "as soon as possible". So after while, my boss knew that I am always a Ok person no matter what type of shit he dumps to me. Last month, I worked as a secretary to clean our old documents and arrange the iron moutain storage. This trivial things make me delay the project I am supposed to do. And my boss said that you should learn to finish the project on time as a professional person.

It was enough for me to deal with my boss now. Because of my obedience, I didn't do what I am intersted in and always help him clean his dirty jobs without any credit. :(:(

So far I don't have study time for my own exam and life. These days, to quit the job is always wandering in my mind. When I talked to my LG about going back to work tomorrow, I can feel that it is the most painful thing I want to do. To keep my job safe, I contribute so much already.

I know people without job might admire what I have. But I really had enough. I really want to quit.

XDJM has any tips on these?

Many thanks.

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只有一句话。 -sigma- 给 sigma 发送悄悄话 (539 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 06:25:05

ding -redrose2008- 给 redrose2008 发送悄悄话 redrose2008 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 06:50:00

同时抓紧找新工作 -lumanmanqixiuyuan- 给 lumanmanqixiuyuan 发送悄悄话 (64 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 06:52:49

回复:同时抓紧找新工作 -Greencard_applicant- 给 Greencard_applicant 发送悄悄话 (247 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 07:31:10

现在的job market非常差,所以你也不要太着急 -lumanmanqixiuyuan- 给 lumanmanqixiuyuan 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 07:40:09

You are absolutely right.回复:只有一句话。 -Greencard_applicant- 给 Greencard_applicant 发送悄悄话 (268 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 07:33:58

虽然只有一句话, 强烈赞同四姑妈! -美国老土- 给 美国老土 发送悄悄话 美国老土 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 09:14:02

不错. 我也学会这么做了. -小谋- 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 17:05:23

Since your boss is not friend, give him an estimate -interested1- 给 interested1 发送悄悄话 (287 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 19:06:53

辞职一分钱都拿不到,找到再走 -喜气连年- 给 喜气连年 发送悄悄话 喜气连年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 07:45:36

我一再强调,厚黑经下面一定要放只毒标 -svm- 给 svm 发送悄悄话 (20 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 07:46:54

ask your boss to prioritize your tasks -zzz5000- 给 zzz5000 发送悄悄话 zzz5000 的博客首页 (66 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 07:48:50

回复:I really want to quit. -yijibang- 给 yijibang 发送悄悄话 yijibang 的博客首页 (521 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 08:12:19

回复:I really want to quit. -feelingthesame- 给 feelingthesame 发送悄悄话 (586 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 08:18:40

飞蛾扑火, 心甘情愿 -安心草- 给 安心草 发送悄悄话 安心草 的博客首页 (47 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 08:31:37

回复:I really want to quit. -shizhenxin03- 给 shizhenxin03 发送悄悄话 (219 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 10:19:16

回复:this is a good suggestion. -linking- 给 linking 发送悄悄话 linking 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 10:28:03

回复:回复:I really want to quit. -Greencard_applicant- 给 Greencard_applicant 发送悄悄话 (801 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 16:52:43

Not a good idea -Legend2008- 给 Legend2008 发送悄悄话 (603 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 18:26:47

回复:回复:回复:I really want to quit. -shizhenxin03- 给 shizhenxin03 发送悄悄话 (2383 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 06:59:23

回复:I really want to quit. -Legend2008- 给 Legend2008 发送悄悄话 (2705 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 13:04:25

A clarification -Legend2008- 给 Legend2008 发送悄悄话 (279 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 13:25:15

Not a good idea -Legend2008- 给 Legend2008 发送悄悄话 (603 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 18:26:09

回复:Not a good idea -Greencard_applicant- 给 Greencard_applicant 发送悄悄话 (2061 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 20:55:04

Your boss may want you to quit too. -说不完的家务事- 给 说不完的家务事 发送悄悄话 (174 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 16:53:50

Look for a new job. However... -松果- 给 松果 发送悄悄话 松果 的博客首页 (420 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 18:07:44

A little Clarification回复:I really want to quit. -Greencard_applicant- 给 Greencard_applicant 发送悄悄话 (419 bytes) () 03/03/2009 postreply 22:18:31

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