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回答: 烦人的印度女同事，请各位给出出主意 由 tx老菜鸟 于 2007-09-01 14:17:08
-- 公司里毒蛇和杂草很多,保护自己的第一道放线就是要自强!
-- 如果你不自信和自强, 你就是别人案上的肉.
"上班才三个星期，就被印度女同事搞的心烦。
我们是在同一天面试（事后聊天知道），她之前有三年工作经验，我是entry level.
可是我拿到的是permanent 职位，而她是contract to hire.我们在同一个组，report给同一个manager（和我们不在同一个州）. 她比我早一个星期上班（我因为家庭原因推迟了一星期）。
自从我上班第一天起，她就以一个老资格雇员的身份不停的教育我要这样那样（都是她主动来找我说话），不时到我的办公桌跟前来查看我在干什么。还经常打听老板都给我布置了些什么任务。"
-- 她有她的千条计, 你要有你的老主意: 自强!
-- Focus on your work;
-- Onloy report to your manager;
-- Ignore all others;
"我在学新东西（老板要求的），被她看到，就和我说，Daniel（manager的名字）说了让你看这个吗？"
-- Answer: Do I have to report to you? Is this your business? Why you care?
" 只要我和老板通了电话别她察觉就会来问：“刚才你再和Daniel说话吗？ 都说了些什么”等等，诸如此类的。"
-- Do I have to report all my phone calls to you?
-- I have no comment to your question.
-- Period, that's it. Otherwise she will continue coming to bother you.
-- You have to let her know you are NOT that kind of dumm to answer all her questions.
至于她自己没事就和老板打电话汇报工作等等我就不说了，毕竟这是她的权利。 可是有两件事实在是很过分。
1）一日中午，她约我到外面去吃饭，吃饭时问我很多面试的细节，比如何时递的简历？面试时都问了些什么问题？pay多少等等。除了工资我没告诉之外其他我都如实相告。
-- Why you report to her all the truth?
-- You have to set up a protection line in front of yourself, never ever answer all the questions the other party is trying to spy from you.
-- You will not gain respect from her even you tell her all the truth.
-- For many of her question, don't tell is the best way to answer. Period. "I have no comment for this question".
"我想她可能怎么也想不明白为什么她只是个contractor，和我相比她又太多优势：经验，语言等等"
-- She doesn't need to understood all the things.
-- The fact is She is a CONTRACTOR;
-- The fact is a CONTRACTOR shouldn't bother a employee for all the above questions.
-- You do not need to answer her every question.
-- AND YOU NEED HIGHLKY ALERT FOR THIS KIND OF PERSON AND THIS KIND OF QUESTION.
-- STAY AWAY WITH HER, DON'T ANSWER HER QUESTION.
-- SHOW NO INTEREST TO HER, AND NO INTERESTING TO HER QUESTION.
-- SHE ASKES YOU THE INTERVIEW QUESTION, YOU ANSWER HER " TODAY'S WETHER IS SO NICE."
2）上周我们的manager Daniel从加州过来培训我们，她每天盛装上班（我们公司要求穿business casual,她平常都穿的邋遢随便）---也无可非议，毕竟大家都想给老板留下好印象。可是他还是一如既往的盯着我，只要老板和我单独说了会话，她就会趁老板走开时过来打听。一天老板把我单独叫到一个会议室讨论今年的目标，因为公司规定每个员工都得定下goal,以便倒是考核performance. 第二天一上班她就假装和我聊天然后问我“你昨天和老板单独出去干嘛了”，当我告诉她我们去讨论年度目标之后，她就追问那老板给拟定的目标是什么？有哪些具体的数字？
我当时非常非常反感，于是就说还没有最后定，等定下来回发email告诉我。
当然她也告诉我作为contractor,她没有这个process,可是问这么具体也太过分了吧？ 我想她下星期上班肯定还会找机会问，但我实在不想告诉她，我该怎么办呢？"
-- I think I already answerred your question above.
-- Ignore her question and do NOT give any answer. Period.
-- Let her knonw you are not dumm, and you are not suppose to report to her.
我这个人没什么太大的野心，只想把工作做好，把家庭照顾好，但也不想随便被别人欺负和骚扰。直觉告诉我她很有野心，我现在尽量和他保持距离，可她总是不停的近乎骚扰我，这在才上班三个星期，今后难免会有更多的事情，我该怎么办呢？大家能不能帮我处处主意怎么对付这个烦人的同事？ 谢谢了！
-- You need to be strong and learn how to protect yourself.
Thanks!
回答: 烦人的印度女同事，请各位给出出主意 由 tx老菜鸟 于 2007-09-01 14:17:08
-- 公司里毒蛇和杂草很多,保护自己的第一道放线就是要自强!
-- 如果你不自信和自强, 你就是别人案上的肉.
"上班才三个星期，就被印度女同事搞的心烦。
我们是在同一天面试（事后聊天知道），她之前有三年工作经验，我是entry level.
可是我拿到的是permanent 职位，而她是contract to hire.我们在同一个组，report给同一个manager（和我们不在同一个州）. 她比我早一个星期上班（我因为家庭原因推迟了一星期）。
自从我上班第一天起，她就以一个老资格雇员的身份不停的教育我要这样那样（都是她主动来找我说话），不时到我的办公桌跟前来查看我在干什么。还经常打听老板都给我布置了些什么任务。"
-- 她有她的千条计, 你要有你的老主意: 自强!
-- Focus on your work;
-- Onloy report to your manager;
-- Ignore all others;
"我在学新东西（老板要求的），被她看到，就和我说，Daniel（manager的名字）说了让你看这个吗？"
-- Answer: Do I have to report to you? Is this your business? Why you care?
" 只要我和老板通了电话别她察觉就会来问：“刚才你再和Daniel说话吗？ 都说了些什么”等等，诸如此类的。"
-- Do I have to report all my phone calls to you?
-- I have no comment to your question.
-- Period, that's it. Otherwise she will continue coming to bother you.
-- You have to let her know you are NOT that kind of dumm to answer all her questions.
至于她自己没事就和老板打电话汇报工作等等我就不说了，毕竟这是她的权利。 可是有两件事实在是很过分。
1）一日中午，她约我到外面去吃饭，吃饭时问我很多面试的细节，比如何时递的简历？面试时都问了些什么问题？pay多少等等。除了工资我没告诉之外其他我都如实相告。
-- Why you report to her all the truth?
-- You have to set up a protection line in front of yourself, never ever answer all the questions the other party is trying to spy from you.
-- You will not gain respect from her even you tell her all the truth.
-- For many of her question, don't tell is the best way to answer. Period. "I have no comment for this question".
"我想她可能怎么也想不明白为什么她只是个contractor，和我相比她又太多优势：经验，语言等等"
-- She doesn't need to understood all the things.
-- The fact is She is a CONTRACTOR;
-- The fact is a CONTRACTOR shouldn't bother a employee for all the above questions.
-- You do not need to answer her every question.
-- AND YOU NEED HIGHLKY ALERT FOR THIS KIND OF PERSON AND THIS KIND OF QUESTION.
-- STAY AWAY WITH HER, DON'T ANSWER HER QUESTION.
-- SHOW NO INTEREST TO HER, AND NO INTERESTING TO HER QUESTION.
-- SHE ASKES YOU THE INTERVIEW QUESTION, YOU ANSWER HER " TODAY'S WETHER IS SO NICE."
2）上周我们的manager Daniel从加州过来培训我们，她每天盛装上班（我们公司要求穿business casual,她平常都穿的邋遢随便）---也无可非议，毕竟大家都想给老板留下好印象。可是他还是一如既往的盯着我，只要老板和我单独说了会话，她就会趁老板走开时过来打听。一天老板把我单独叫到一个会议室讨论今年的目标，因为公司规定每个员工都得定下goal,以便倒是考核performance. 第二天一上班她就假装和我聊天然后问我“你昨天和老板单独出去干嘛了”，当我告诉她我们去讨论年度目标之后，她就追问那老板给拟定的目标是什么？有哪些具体的数字？
我当时非常非常反感，于是就说还没有最后定，等定下来回发email告诉我。
当然她也告诉我作为contractor,她没有这个process,可是问这么具体也太过分了吧？ 我想她下星期上班肯定还会找机会问，但我实在不想告诉她，我该怎么办呢？"
-- I think I already answerred your question above.
-- Ignore her question and do NOT give any answer. Period.
-- Let her knonw you are not dumm, and you are not suppose to report to her.
我这个人没什么太大的野心，只想把工作做好，把家庭照顾好，但也不想随便被别人欺负和骚扰。直觉告诉我她很有野心，我现在尽量和他保持距离，可她总是不停的近乎骚扰我，这在才上班三个星期，今后难免会有更多的事情，我该怎么办呢？大家能不能帮我处处主意怎么对付这个烦人的同事？ 谢谢了！
-- You need to be strong and learn how to protect yourself.
Thanks!
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