just like 老布 said, it's business

you shouldn't get business mixed with personal feelings. It may not be natural to you but you have to learn that's the way to deal with these issues. You're in a consulting firm after all, handling such interaction should be 2nd nature.

Do it in person with your manager in a straightforward way. Don't hide behind email or voice mail. Don't behave like you did something wrong. Quite the contrary, you did something right, you realized better value, which your current employer failed to recognize. If someone has to act like the guilty party, it's your manager. NOT YOU.

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• 早点看到这个贴就好了。想想2年前 -刚刚好- ♀ (93 bytes) () 11/24/2008 postreply 22:08:24

• 不晚不晚,下回超生或跳橹,记得说"老娘我..."作开场白 -CatcherInTheRye- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/24/2008 postreply 22:25:39

• oh， 也可以说： -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (51 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 08:26:37

• Too 有力～～～ -taizhou- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 08:36:47

• 你可不要学，你是绅士. 你应该说： -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (42 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 08:42:57

• 不管我的事，不是我要教你们粗话的，要怨就怨Catcher开了个好头。。 -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 08:51:08

• That's fine, no one complains you so far :) -taizhou- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 09:15:46

• 牛！ -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 12:17:22

• Hehe:), buddy, I like your English! -ntking- ♂ (268 bytes) () 11/25/2008 postreply 12:41:04