1. Move on, get rid of her

Cannot do that? then:

2. Really learn how to communicate and fit into the power structure.

It is just obvious that you've got problem with power structure there, if you don't need your boss and the power structure there, you have no problem -- you just fine, you can just go anywhere and continue your whatever hard work there. If you do need them but they don't need you? -- you have no problem either, they're going to get rid of you anyway no matter what. You need them and they need you too? Then the opportunity for improvement does exist, and I do see that you have tons of problems to get things go smoothly: from attitude to communication skills, but I'm not sure whether you can really learn.

If what you want is just about how to fight your boss? You don't need any advice, just go fight! Just that simple! How about tomorrow morning you just go and bite your boss? That's totally fine! You don't lose anything more than losing your job plus getting arrested with a criminal charge, if you're fine with it, you can do it, you have no problem at all.

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No matter I am staying or leaving, I am not looking for fight -scaredfish- 给 scaredfish 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 18:36:46

You need to improve your listening -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (1159 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 19:14:47

No, I don't think they are getting rid of me. -scaredfish- 给 scaredfish 发送悄悄话 (221 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 19:27:13

Ok, what if you die tomorrow? -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (354 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 19:32:01

I see what you're saying and I agree. That's not what I meant -scaredfish- 给 scaredfish 发送悄悄话 (119 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 19:37:36

你是谁呀?你怎么说话?难道你的同事 -舞娃阿妈- 给 舞娃阿妈 发送悄悄话 (413 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 19:57:01

ok -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 20:02:18

说说你的感想? -含娜- 给 含娜 发送悄悄话 含娜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 20:06:47

No worth to waste time -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (216 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 20:08:43

Second that. Please share your thoughts. Ears... -全信书- 给 全信书 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 20:09:05

您老兄可放了回空城计打了次回马枪,骗了我一回啊。。 -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (16 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 20:52:15

You lost me. Scratching my head... -全信书- 给 全信书 发送悄悄话 (166 bytes) () 05/28/2008 postreply 21:50:59

forget it..:) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/29/2008 postreply 04:30:35

Don't forget it. :) What's it? At ur service... -全信书- 给 全信书 发送悄悄话 (80 bytes) () 05/29/2008 postreply 05:23:26

Was that posting thread deleted: not that one? Not that one :) -戏雨飞鹰- 给 戏雨飞鹰 发送悄悄话 戏雨飞鹰 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/29/2008 postreply 05:21:34

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