How to deal with this kind of manager?

Hi, Dear All,

I started to look for a new job in the middle of Feb. Just before I went to my first interview. My manager said he would promote me to a supervisor. He said he would start my paperwork. 2 weeks after, I asked him whether he filed my paperwork. He said it's in process. Another week later, he said the director would do that. 2 weeks after that, he said he just realized he should file my paperwork. 2 weeks ago, he told me I would see my salary increase on April 17 paycheck. But today I called payroll, they told me they haven't received any file for my case so I won't see my salary increase on April 17. So I think my manager is playing me. I want to ask him for the copy of the paperwork he claimed he filed. Is this appropreiate for me to do? What would you do if you are in the same boat?

Thank you in advance for any input.

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Stay quite, move on -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (83 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:01:02

回复:Stay quite, move on -sara16- 给 sara16 发送悄悄话 (241 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:16:47

That's not the point -全信书- 给 全信书 发送悄悄话 (210 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:24:19

回复:That's not the point -sara16- 给 sara16 发送悄悄话 (326 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:41:12

This is what I would do... -全信书- 给 全信书 发送悄悄话 (520 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 10:01:09

Take easy -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (788 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:24:27

Very good point. -QuentinMom- 给 QuentinMom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:33:20

yes,Very good point. -maysuh- 给 maysuh 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 12:18:53

回复:Take easy -sara16- 给 sara16 发送悄悄话 (332 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:45:57

坦率地说: 如果你失去了提升的机会,只是被上司耍了一把, -知名度比较高- 给 知名度比较高 发送悄悄话 知名度比较高 的博客首页 (390 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 08:54:46

这个说地好,支持! -清风蝶影- 给 清风蝶影 发送悄悄话 清风蝶影 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 09:05:14

No need to 再去找上司交锋, just move on -ntking- 给 ntking 发送悄悄话 (934 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 09:08:16

如果是我, 在这种情况下, -知名度比较高- 给 知名度比较高 发送悄悄话 知名度比较高 的博客首页 (271 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 09:13:45

我也正想说这些。 -清风蝶影- 给 清风蝶影 发送悄悄话 清风蝶影 的博客首页 (247 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 09:23:46

是。 是这样啊~ -知名度比较高- 给 知名度比较高 发送悄悄话 知名度比较高 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 09:29:17

Good to finally hear something postive from you -scaredfish- 给 scaredfish 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 11:23:59

回复:How to deal with this kind of manager? -sara16- 给 sara16 发送悄悄话 (51 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 10:56:08

Yes, your manager has been playing a game on you! It is not wort -yunren- 给 yunren 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/10/2008 postreply 11:11:09

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