同情你

从今天的这个帖子看来，你已经寻找工作有一段时间了，心情上觉得灰心，难过，沮丧，在家里也有压力。真的很同情你，这真是很不好的滋味。

在这个论坛上寻找有相似经历，一起找工作的朋友本也是合情合理的想法。也正因为这种相似的经历，这里有可能有更多可以给你精神鼓励以及对你的处境有更多同情的朋友。

一个人处于低谷的时候，是需要他人的鼓励，同情及支持，有时别人的建议也是有益处的。但给建议的时候我们要注意自己的措辞。不是说建议的内容对与否，而是说提建议的方式。Sometimes it is more important how you say it than what you say.如果别人要的是同情而你只能给与建议，那么保持沉默也是一种很好的选择。

梅影，送你一首在网上找到的鼓励的诗：

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--
You may succeed with another blow,
Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

所有跟帖： 

• 我觉得她不需要同情，她的黎明就在前面不远处 -yellowlemon- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/06/2008 postreply 12:06:41

• good point, my fault, apologize -Jamesxu- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/06/2008 postreply 12:42:39