How should I deal with this guy ?

I'm a middle age woman working in an IT position. Recently, there is
a issue confused me and I try to find some ideas and supporting from
you guys here.

Thanks in advance.

My collegue is a young white guy. He is very smart. But I just don't feel comfortable to working with him. Because he is too aggresive. E.g. Each time as my boss or RAs come to our office for question, he appears very active to answering all them, even some of those are actually related to my projects and not his.

He also write email to annouce peoples some conjunt projects are done without metioned any of my efforts.

Beside his aggrisave behave related to working fact, he is a very nice and sun shine boy. I understand that he really tries to show off himself for future promotion (He actually got a promotion last year). But it hurts me.

Should I tell him my feeling?

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• try to do the same thing! let everyone know what you are doing -biotoit- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 09:59:42

• 言多必失，蹦的高摔的重。对这样的人当面说好话，背后下刀子。 -爱民屯老村长- ♀ (252 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 10:06:34

• 哥们，这真的是你吗？我真的不相信我的眼睛。 -automation.robotics- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 12:53:01

• Ignore him or be more aggressive -屋漏痕- ♂ (462 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 10:20:02

• don't give hint, don't complain privately -逝川上- ♀ (497 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 14:25:10

• make sense -maysuh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 14:53:11

• No, you do not need to tell him anything. -小宝和小傻瓜- ♂ (161 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 15:05:49

• Keep information from him -Eveline- ♀ (318 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 19:14:14

• If I were you, I would keep my mouth shut and -掉的一- ♀ (169 bytes) () 11/29/2007 postreply 20:45:33

• If you can't beat him, join him -胡说之- ♂ (71 bytes) () 11/30/2007 postreply 07:42:43

• 回复：How should I deal with this guy ? -jingwen- ♀ (125 bytes) () 11/30/2007 postreply 09:50:18