回复：超过30的女人的职业之路该如何走

"我硕士毕业后，生小孩，带小孩歇了2年，以前学的作的全都忘了，一直想做coding，但是一直都没有做成。"
-- Master, child, two years break... Nice!
-- Love coding? you must be very smart.

"最近在公司作software configuration management.但是我想做oracle database 管理,也很想做嵌入式系统，也很想做coding，可是老觉得自己年龄太大，不知道做什么才好。"
-- Nice to have the relatively easy job now;
-- age 30 is not old;
-- even you like it, try to avoid coding if you can;
-- Oracle DBA is the best choice in above list, but hard to enter;
-- embedded system and other coding is not good direction for you to go;
-- since you love coding, I believe you have the capability to do it. This is very goos and important. If possible, instead of find Oracle DBA, try to start as database engineer, "Shell /Java/Perl/Php/C/C++ + SQL + some business knowledge + your system configure experience" will bring you database analyst job. This kind of the job is relatively easy to enter, nice life style.

"如在美国，做database 和coding 那个更适合？"
-- As said above, try to do database associated work. Easier life, higher pay and planty of jobs.

"有时候不是说兴趣的问题，真是精力不如以前，学起东西来也觉得吃力，不如以前得心应手。看着别人做得都还算成功，比如作project manager， 钱也多。心理觉得自己太失败了。"
-- Come on, age 30 is not old;
-- Project manager is good job? high pay? better ask the project manager what they want...

Glad you are thinking forward, you will find a good job...