回复：工作和感情的困惑

Go for it. Talk it up. keep it in mind onlu can suffer yourself. If he dosen't have the same feeling for you, maybe you will just calm down. If he dose, excuse yourself once, mke it happen. 10 years plain marriage life, no excitment, no desire, just obligations and duties, it's understanable.'cause you don't need to worry about you job, so, whatever the decision you make,life still will go on.