晒一下 不玩游戏的老大 :

老大 上大一了，也没玩过游戏。但早恋。
 

2015.5.11
http://video.sinovision.net/?id=28512
 第6分钟

孩子不是牛娃，连藤的边都没沾上。

但跟他自己比，强太多。

9年级 时，相当懒散，还得过F。我那时就想，他能上个社区大学，到新东方当个ESL 老师，能养活自己，就知足。可他 还不爱当老师。他那时脾气 躁得很，真当不了老师。


活动够多吧？
可人家高中4年的重心是早恋. 合合分分的, 可热闹了 .
后来他自己说，他用在学习的精力只有10%。

我可羡慕 nerd 的孩子了，大人都跟着省心。甚至，玩游戏都比早恋强。
就是想想，到老二 还是不让碰游戏。吸取教训，给老二安排了好多活动，让他忙不过来。

但, 没玩过游戏   他是绝对没影响 社交
北边的学校 是跟同学拼车 去参观的。有2个家长 当司机。
南边的，全程是他自己安排。订票，蹭住，咨询。。。

2014.9.1  

Hey mom. Just wanted to update you on everything. 

My schedule has just been finalized. Took some really hard classes, but got pretty great teachers. 

My roommate and I get along really well. We go to church together and really enjoy spending time together. 

I found two Christian groups that I have been participating in. ACF and JCA. Both are great organizations and I really enjoy being in both. 

I also got a job! The people at Hillel absolutely loved me and hired me on the spot! 

The food here is getting boring really quickly. I don't know how I'll be able to eat this for another year...

Hope everything is well at home.

Update me! 


2015.6.11
新出炉的   , 儿子收到的表扬信 :
 只母亲节回来一周.  他申请到一份学校的暑期工。

Hi S ,
> I am one of the counselors on the SACAC Sweet Tea Tour. I just wanted to write to tell you how thoroughly impressed I have been with Peter     . On the first day my roommate and I had to move rooms due to a faulty toilet. He made that happen immediately. Last night when we returned to Emory he was there to greet us, assisted me with some computer issues and helped tremendously by dropping some important documents for me in the mail today when I could not find a mailbox. He followed through with me to assure me everything had been sent. He is extremely poised, articulate and by far the most responsible young man I have ever met in 18 years as a college counselor. Emory is so lucky to have him as a student!
>
> Thank you for hosting us!
> Sincerely,


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所有跟帖： 

• 学校不错，祝贺 -shangh_r- ♂ (24 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 13:56:27

• 太沉，推不动了 :) -lihuama- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/07/2015 postreply 07:38:26

• 早恋可比玩游戏让人成熟的快。好孩子！ -篱笆08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 13:56:49

• 怪不得早恋，帅哥！ -云逸徉- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 13:56:54

• 还是早恋好，至少以后不愁媳妇， -soundofsilence- ♀ (33 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 13:58:00

• 早恋也没有啥不好，提高男孩的情商。不过就是别弄大女孩的肚子就行了。 -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:02:17

• ------- 唉，他是绝对没影响 社交. 说个好玩的: -lihuama- ♀ (726 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:03:17

• 哇? 大帅哥你家的！ -时间呢- ♀ (24 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:11:37

• 献丑 献丑 . -lihuama- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:33:08

• 我5月份就看了，把俺嫉妒的 -时间呢- ♀ (110 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:34:15

• 实在是斗争了很久，都不敢说出来 . -lihuama- ♀ (288 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:35:48

• 谢谢最终的决定 -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:37:30

• wow, so handsome! -wonderer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:31:12

• 一般般。但他自我感觉太好。害人呀！ -lihuama- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:37:24

• 自我感觉太好是美国的立足之道啊！咱们就别瞎指挥了 -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:38:17

• 这个要点赞。 -加拿大中医- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:47:24

• 赞一个。 -直言好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/11/2015 postreply 14:57:12

• 游戏是最浪费时间和影响孩子的正常社交活动的。能力需要在现实中与人接触而培养的。SAT可以补，可是性格和能力的形成是个漫长的过程！ -阳春白雪下里巴人- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/12/2015 postreply 07:57:38