回复：“只是想自己要怎样才能做得好一点，再好一点，慢慢地就把自己的身体推到了极限。”好大喜功的老板们也是只推会做事的人，所以不能

Lowering self expection and ignor (do it in a politically "right" way) boss' expection can save many people from the depression.  But on the flip side, you are giving up the possibility of reaching a higher level.  The hard part is that you can NOT know / predict the outcome before head.  So, when sad like this happens, one regret for not lowering expection, when still alive but not reaching a high level, one regret for not trying "a little more" hard - a real dilima for people in this modern world.